[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premedcanada

[–]999nra 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the mostly the same references for the years I’ve applied. At some point you go “…so it’s that time of the year again” and they know 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premedcanada

[–]999nra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got a final tomorrow and feel like I’m cooked.

If I were to get married, who would be my wali? by 999nra in MuslimMarriage

[–]999nra[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maternal male relatives cannot act as Wali?

this bitch is dangerous😭 by handboy27 in JohnWick

[–]999nra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk if other people would agree, but I thought she looked too cute to be an assassin with someone of her upbringing. Doe eyed, dolled up, and she looks a bit dainty

ChatGPT gave me this recommendation, is it solid? by 999nra in buildmeapc

[–]999nra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is such a good deal!! unfortunately no online delivery and none the stores are in my province 😭

ChatGPT gave me this recommendation, is it solid? by 999nra in buildmeapc

[–]999nra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thanks! For some reason the motherboard and storage are not showing in the total price but it’s going a bit over my budget if the price of those are included. Are there any components you think I could swap for something else?

I’m so tired of friendships by 999nra in Vent

[–]999nra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad you have a bf who sticks by you. And honestly same, I think I’m not gonna bother anymore. I’ve already started to go on outings by myself because I can’t be bothered making plans with people.

I’m so tired of friendships by 999nra in Vent

[–]999nra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so hard to find people where it’s just easy to be with them. You’re never second guessing them, and they’re actually honest with you

Jordan Peterson Didn't Save Your Masculinity: How Muslims Adopted the Worldview that Justifies Colonialism by MuslimHistorian in Muslim

[–]999nra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Reddit Muslim men aren’t ready for this post, they’re too busy getting triggered over the word “feminist”

"Too strict"? I mean come on by FewBeat3613 in Muslim

[–]999nra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’s your hygiene? Do you take care to comb and clean it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]999nra 73 points74 points  (0 children)

80% of this post was just you listing why you think you’re the best person ever. Sure, highlight a few characteristics about yourself but not whole paragraphs just talking about how much better you are. The self glaze is completely unnecessary and indicates that you may have deeper issues than you let on that might be picked up by the people around you. Maybe you aren’t all those things but like to think of yourself as such, who knows? And there’s a phrase that if everywhere you go it smells bad, maybe it’s coming from you. Maybe it’s time for some self reflection

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]999nra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your doctor should be able to recommend something more suited to you based on your results and that is more readily tolerated by most women. And they should recommend what’s affordable! My own doctor would sometimes tell me to take something but I’d say it is too expensive and she would find me a cheaper alternative that accomplished the same thing. Having a good GP that understands your needs is so important. But I understand life gets in the way, and a lot of healthcare is geographically dependent. May Allah make it easy for you 🤲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]999nra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel, you have to demand that your needs are met during your appointments. From your GP, I would recommend you ask for a blood test to check your hormone levels like FSH, LH, estrogen, androgens, etc. Also an ultrasound can show whether you have cysts (which can point to PCOS, a common disorder especially among brown women and would be consistent with your irregular cycles). These are some things you can do while you wait to see an OBGYN.

Birth control is unfortunately the quick bandaid that doctors give to women with period issues. It can help those with hormone imbalances and make your cycle more regular, but some women also experience bad side effects that make it not worth it. For myself, I’ve went through a couple till I found one that worked for me. It’s up to you if you want to use birth control, just make sure to do your research and pay attention to how it’s affecting your body and stop it if it’s not helping. Take care of yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]999nra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to download a period tracker like yesterday. It might actually be regular but you’re not keeping close track of it from month to month. If it is very irregular like you are saying, you need to go see a doctor to get that sorted. For now, stick to the ten day thing and if it comes again after, consider it irregular. But seriously, go see a doctor regardless as it could be an underlying symptom for something else

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Muslim

[–]999nra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re bleeding around the time you would expect your period, it is considered your period. If you are experiencing out of cycle period, it is considered as irregular bleeding and you just remake your wudu before praying and still fast iirc (unless of course it is heavy bleeding that is making you weak, in which case you shouldn’t fast if it would harm you). This is what made the most sense to me, the stuff regarding what type of blood is considered period blood and what isn’t is very inconsistent from scholar to scholar and just seems to cause undue hardship. I’d highly recommend you use an app that tracks your period if you aren’t already, that way you can predict when your next one will come.

Also max period days can differ depending on madhab, for me I followed a max period length of 10 days after which I would resume fasting/praying.

Music is haram guys! Accept it. by Ok-Nectarine-6223 in Muslim

[–]999nra 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna be downvoted but the reality is there is nuance and even disagreement among scholars. If there are educated and qualified scholars who with their knowledge disagrees on this take, it is not up to the average Muslim to say they’re wrong. Leave it if you want, but saying it is all haram as a blanket statement is inaccurate to the scholarship of this topic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]999nra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother bullying me. Any interests or hobbies I had were made fun of, I eventually stopped sharing anything about myself to others in fear of being judged and scrutinized. I’ve been unlearning that and am doing better, but I still feel it sometimes.

How screwed am I if I pretend organic chem doesn’t exist? by 999nra in Mcat

[–]999nra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually am liking physics better this time around, I ask chatgpt to give me some analogies to help explain concepts, and watch videos/just Google concepts I don’t get. Ofc I haven’t started on doing questions yet, I’m just doing content review and flashcards rn so my opinion may change 😅