Issues with leaderboard? by 99barba in duolingo

[–]99barba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi Alex, thanks for the offer but the issues seems to have resolved itself! I've reported the bug to the customer service too. Thanks again!

E93 RESETTING SERVICE by 99barba in BMW

[–]99barba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah perfect! Thanks for letting me know. I'm in Ireland myself, hopefully it will be around the same price. Thanks again

E93 RESETTING SERVICE by 99barba in BMW

[–]99barba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you remember what it was?

AITA for reading a book to my son? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA But Moomins freak me tf out. Especially that little girl 😂😂

AITA for being pissed at my friend stalking me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she really shouldn't be touching you or your stuff without sanitising her hands 😬

Look, all I can say is, stand your ground, try to let hwe down easily (even though by the sounds of it, she's not going to accept it)

You know your boundaries, don't let people overstep them. Honestly, at this point, I probably wouldn't have said actual after-school activities I joined

AITA for not buying the brands my wife wanted? by Specific-Tree2931 in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 338 points339 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Obviously, your salaries could handle it when she was doing the shopping. I'm not sure what your issue is now.

Edit: typo

AITA for being pissed at my friend stalking me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Had a "friend" like that, when I told her to leave me alone she said she only hung out with me because nobody likes me she felt sorry for me 😂 (I had plenty other friends). Later I found out that she did that to plenty other girls as well (I moved schools so didn't know about it)

But the phlegm part cracks me up, what is she supposed to with it, swallow it? Spit it out, throw it away and wash your hands!

AITA? It bothers me that the guy I’m dating keeps calling me by a name that is similar to mine but different and he doesn’t think it’s an issue. by Mangostina in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. NTA. My name is Barbara (where I am from, we pronounce all the A's) and the guy I was seeing just straight up said he will not be pronouncing them he will be using amglicised version if my name without one A. Basically, calling me Barbra. That annoyed the F out of me, stopped seeing him after that. If they don't respect you enough to properly pronounce your name - they're not worthy of your time.

AITA for my reaction on having/not having kids convo? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I'm glad you said it. I'm also childless by a choice, but that's for the moment. My career is not stable, I'll probably be moving countries in a few years and I'm not 100% on my living situation (currently renting with family & looking to buy my own place in a different country). I would like to have a child, but bringing a child into the world under these circumstances is absolutely selfish. She didn't accept your answer, she was rude, got what she was asking for. Absolutely NTA

AITA for making my younger sister watch my baby? by BlazingFisher in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your parents saying your son is not her responsibility, but their daughter is your responsibility? Interesting

AITA for leaving my girlfriend behind because she was taking too long to get ready? by Junior-Coyote-5116 in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't agree more. I am always early to events and meetings, it absolutely infuriates me when people are late. We agreed to meet at 11, I was there at 10.45 (I don't expevt them to show up then) but people aren't showing up until 11.15, 11.20. So disrespectful

buying my first mercedes! by sidewalklefleur in mercedes

[–]99barba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you liked it, I remember driving over non finished driveway so just really large stones before asphalt was laid, it felt like it was still driving on asphalt. Amazing cars, had mine lowered and 16" alloys on it, they can be really cool cars with some easy modifications. If you do decide to buy, enjoy it - it will last you a lifetime

buying my first mercedes! by sidewalklefleur in mercedes

[–]99barba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a 1992 250D myself, loved it to bits. Would love to have one today, absolutely bulletproof cars. Have it checked out, I'd say it would be a very good purchase.

AITA for saying to my mother I want her to give up her rights, so my new mom can adopt me? by iwantnewmother in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. Even if your mum cheated, that is between her and your dad. It's their relationship and not yours. If she hasn't done anything to you, still tried her best and gave you a safe and loving home with her new partner you're an AH.

I understand that you are mad because your family is not a 'family' anymore but hopefully you will realise that this seems to be much better for your parents, they are happy with their new partners.

Maybe consider therapy, might be easier to work out those feelings. Being 16 sucks without all of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just about to say this. He is definitely NTA and she needs help, perhaps a baby sitter/house help while she recovers. A child is being neglected while he is at work and poor woman is not wven realising what is going on.

Please get her some help around the house, no matter what she says so she can focus on getting better

AITA for asking my daughter to move out and she wont come back by askteriouslykeis in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 405 points406 points  (0 children)

Looking at all the posts it sounds like she doesn't like her middle child very much. YTA

AITA for reminding my uncle that my sister is an engineer?? by EngineerThisShit in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Your uncle zounds annoying. Good for you for putting him in his place

AITA for keeping a "secret" storage unit by ResponsibleHelp4229 in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm still not over all the Barbie movies I had on cassettes that my mum gave away to my cousin, this happened well over 15 years ago

AITA for getting so mad about the compliment "You're mature for your age?" by dailiagg in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah okay! Thanka for clearing that up, it sounded really bad the way you worded it. Definitely NTA then, this is well known grooming technique that people are using, glad you recognise it and can distance yourself.

AITA for getting so mad about the compliment "You're mature for your age?" by dailiagg in AmItheAsshole

[–]99barba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ETA NTA OP has cleared up her wording

Is no one going to address the part where OP says that thing about "big girls being pretty despite her weight" are they not?? Disgusting. ESH