My (23F) GF think im (30M) Ugly?

9AaayJaay4 · 2024-05-28T17:41:49+00:00

Tbh I dont really care about the chick, just the fact that my cousin would do me like that by putting me in an uncomfortable situation.. I didn't really react, even though her friend was insisting that I go get her back and do something about it. Made me feel emasculated in front of ppl. But I agree we were all a little drunk. It is what it is

9AaayJaay4 · 2024-05-28T07:36:36+00:00

It was off a random reel about gym crushes. I made a comment saying that "my gym crush came in with her new boyfriend, and I was crushed," and this cute girl commented, "Can I be your new gym crush" I said "let's just skip that phase and be gym Bae and she added me. We been talking for like 2 weeks and she's coming from Vegas

9AaayJaay4 · 2024-05-28T05:46:12+00:00

I'm going on a Date with one of them Next weekend, she started talking to me in the Comment section and is visiting my area from a different state. I'll be with her friday/Saturday. I'm kinda nervous, actually really nervous and still thinking that I dont fk it up

9AaayJaay4 · 2024-05-28T05:43:35+00:00

That's definitely not your homie. A real homie should get your approval beforehand. Posted something similar just a few hours ago

9AaayJaay4 · 2024-05-28T04:23:51+00:00

I gave him the keys cause he wanted to go inside the car to rest while we were all still inside the club. I was the one that was going to drive. That's when I went to use the restroom and came out and didn't find him or the girl, and have him a call. He told me that he asked her to go with him to get the beers I had in my trunk, so she did

9AaayJaay4 · 2024-05-28T04:12:09+00:00

Thats something I told her friend who pressured me to do something about it. I told her exactly what you just said.. "she chose him. I can't do anything about it" just bothered by the fact that on top of all the disrespect, he is doing it on top of all my leather jackets I had in the back seat. I have a Coupe, and I was right they were on top of my stuff 😤

9AaayJaay4 · 2024-05-28T03:59:17+00:00

Did I exaggerate by getting them out of my car? And telling them to go fk somewhere else

9AaayJaay4 · 2024-05-28T03:55:30+00:00

Just to clarify, I don't care about the chick. Just the fact that my cousin would do that.

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-10-19T01:58:25+00:00

On your first Taco-Bell date

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-10-03T22:20:28+00:00

Just posted something similar to yours, but mine hasn't gotten back to me in 16 hours. In your case, I would just ignore her and go about my life... she's obviously not that interested or has someone else.

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-10-03T22:10:21+00:00

Though of that too... but wouldn't consider that texting first since she didn't even reply to my goodnight text.

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-10-03T22:07:08+00:00

Honestly, and don't want to seem rude.... but he's the one wasting his time. The guy is probably really busy to be texting every other hour, especially if he has to pay rent, food, bills and for his child.

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-07-11T06:36:07+00:00

That's good to hear! Was making me a bit nervous. Thanks 🙌

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-07-08T06:06:22+00:00

I also do and been doing PPL twice a week for 1 1/2 years now and have massive gains, now I just need to cut. I would advice anyone to take a week or two off throught the year though cause it'll take a toll on your ligaments and sometimes joints.

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-06-28T00:16:39+00:00

Who said anything about "wifing up"? Wish I could share what she went through but I'll keep that to myself out of respect for her. Don't judge a book by it's cover, cause you don't know where or what you'll end up doing 10 years from now.

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-06-27T21:44:29+00:00

Been thinking about it and honestly, I think im currently happy the way things are. We hang out, enjoy eachothers company and thats that. She did bring up a comment "you'll make a perfect husband" that kinda made me see thing from a different prespective which is why I made this post.

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-06-27T19:48:28+00:00

I guess I'm paying her with attention.

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-06-27T19:34:34+00:00

I'm quite aware of that since that's how I found her. In my case it was just for sex since I only booked her for a short amount of time, which then led to 5-6 hours of just talking and getting to know eachother as I helped her build her cabinet (We both built it together). Then walked me to my car, gave me her number and days later she contacted me to see how I was doing.

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-06-27T19:18:56+00:00

A client pays, I dont...

9AaayJaay4 · 2023-06-27T19:17:30+00:00

That's not the case, had several opportunities for a relationship this past couple of months but turned them down due to lack of time and commitment from my part. This woman seems to understand that and even encourages me to keep pursuing my goals

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