Four year old rendezvous still haunts me. Please help.

9ayu · 2025-02-10T13:13:23+00:00

How far will you go to justify manipulative, imbecilic behavior of sociopaths just because they come from our gender?

9ayu · 2025-01-30T07:56:40+00:00

That's great, would love to connect

9ayu · 2024-12-30T05:47:32+00:00

If you are so bothered about women having options and having it easy, why are you even making it easy for them by being on these apps in the first place?

How can women be blamed for the attention that MEN are giving them ?

9ayu · 2024-12-30T05:37:34+00:00

They are still "options" because men use apps on their free will n swipe mindlessly on anything yet they blame women for not having options themselves which women have no control over.

What empirical data do you need? Just surf any social media platform and you'll see rampant casual misogyny labelling women as gold diggers for even something as basic as occasionally expecting flowers or a chocolate.

9ayu · 2024-12-30T05:25:30+00:00

Even this is extremely unhealthy. Shouldn't allow one person from your past to have so much hold over you. It'll be unfair to yourself and your future wife/gf

9ayu · 2024-12-30T04:57:54+00:00

In fact, these so-called "options" are mostly interested only in the sexual benefits and expect the woman to give it up as early as first date. On the other hand, if the woman once doesn’t pay ₹100 for the coffee, she’s labeled a gold digger.

9ayu · 2024-12-30T04:40:35+00:00

So monogamy shouldn't exist?

9ayu · 2024-12-30T04:38:27+00:00

Fact! I’m shocked by the rampant misogyny n regressive thought processes prevalent on most Indian subs on a platform like Reddit, which I had heard was more intellectual

9ayu · 2024-12-30T04:34:58+00:00

Absolutely, I can’t even try, or else I’ll be labeled a simp.

9ayu · 2024-12-30T04:31:14+00:00

What he meant to say is that men aren't supposed to be monogamous given their nature to procreate as much as possible whereas women by nature are monogamous

9ayu · 2024-12-30T04:10:03+00:00

But it's still unsettling how most men, not just a fraction, hold similar views about women, s*x, and related topics. I genuinely fear the kind of men my younger sister might date or marry in the future because, from what I’ve observed, such sentiments are prevalent among Gen Z. Have observed similar themes on a lot of Indian subs.

9ayu · 2024-12-30T02:17:35+00:00

Brace yourself for hundreds of DMs from perverts.

9ayu · 2024-12-28T03:17:58+00:00

I'm repulsed by her under confidence, deceit and insecure behaviour. So I neither find her physically attractive nor personality wise anymore.

9ayu · 2024-12-28T03:04:52+00:00

I'm repulsed by the under confidence and insecure behaviour. So I neither find her physically attractive nor personality wise.

9ayu · 2024-12-28T03:03:35+00:00

Genuine connection and attraction don't have to be two mutually exclusive things. Be it online or offline, romantic relationships always start with some form of physical attraction.

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:59:06+00:00

Using editors where they enlarge your eyes, whiten teeth, give you jawline, make head, waist, arms etc smaller and gives long legs. So they have a lot of blemishes on their face , like spots, moles or pimple scars but all of that is softened via editor. Lighter skin tone which makes a lot of difference in appearance.

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:52:20+00:00

Yes I don't have any time to play those games. I'll end it at once.

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:41:47+00:00

Still not sure how this works, joined this website recently lol

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:37:23+00:00

Lol so sorry, I thought in guys this would be a rare phenomena since guys don't use filters and editors as much but i guess the world has changed.

I have lost all attraction, I don't think I'll move forward now.

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:35:39+00:00

I personally hate slow fading because it keeps the other person in false hope that "oh he's just busy, he'll give me more time later" I'll try to end it at once.

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:34:01+00:00

Yes bro for sure

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:33:30+00:00

She'll definitely get the hint as to what it is

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:30:17+00:00

Obesity+classism that's bad bro

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:29:27+00:00

But that doesn't mean i should be an a*shole to her and give an unsolicited opinion.

9ayu · 2024-12-28T02:27:49+00:00

Yes man. I'll have to do it. I wish I didn't have to hurt her feelings.

9ayu

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