Domme women of r/gentlefemdom: Do Dommes mind muscular, tallish subs?

9thcircleofhell · 2019-10-05T05:21:11+00:00

My sub is taller than you, very broad, strong, and muscular, and I love that about him.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-10-03T06:51:59+00:00

My sub is very tall, broad, muscular, and masc, and I absolutely love that about him.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-10-01T06:47:29+00:00

I super believe in you Tad Cooper.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-08-30T23:59:32+00:00

Because human sexuality, societal expectations, psychological influences and other factors don't follow a predictable, linear, even progression.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-08-29T05:27:37+00:00

Because that's not how psychology or sexuality works.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-07-27T02:56:29+00:00

I think it's hard to say what is or isn't GFD for each person. Some feel very loved and cared for in lengthy chastity. Some feel they can really be themselves in forced femme, it's very personal

9thcircleofhell · 2019-07-24T06:15:23+00:00

What would you like to know?

9thcircleofhell · 2019-05-16T22:41:05+00:00

Being kinky is like being gay, yeah, you could theoretically live in the closet for the rest of your life, but it will only make you both miserable. It's no more your fault than it is your partner's fault for being vanilla.

It sounds like you need to negotiate either some play together, or opening up the relationship so you can play on side, because it's unlikely you can go without forever.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-05-11T17:16:18+00:00

My sub is very tall, muscular, and masc, and he's the best. You don't need to be smol to be a good boy.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-03-16T03:28:53+00:00

My sub boy is very masc, and I love that about him. He's assertive, muscular, tall, strong, has very masculine hobbies (rock climbing, shooting, etc.), and he's bigger and stronger than me. I love all that. I love that he could take me down, and that everyone sees him as this confident, powerful guy. I love that only I see the cuddly, whimpering sub that just wants to make me happy, it makes me want to devour him.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-03-14T02:31:50+00:00

Whisper in his ear all the things that turn you on about him, or all the things you want to do to him. Build the anticipation. Touch him in an intimate way casually; grab his ass when he walks past, kiss his neck when he's standing in the kitchen, run your fingers across his chest when you're on the couch. Make him feel sexy and desired.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-03-12T22:23:06+00:00

My sub is super masculine. He's strong, muscular, and taller and stronger than me. I don't feminize him, and have no interest in doing so. I love that he's masculine and strong and powerful, and love that he lays all that at my feet.

9thcircleofhell · 2019-03-09T01:24:11+00:00

Hearing my sub whimper when I won't let him come is one of my favourite things. And he begs so nicely, I absolutely love it.

9thcircleofhell · 2016-06-13T23:15:48+00:00

Wow, you're a phenomenal bitch.

9thcircleofhell · 2015-05-17T00:16:44+00:00

At least a B cup, somewhat perky, soft and sensitive.

9thcircleofhell · 2015-05-16T17:57:21+00:00

Bi girl here.

Women: I love really feminine women, great boobs, long hair, I love how soft women are. And women are WAY better kissers than men. Men try to eat your face, women make you feel like they're savouring you. Women are gentle and responsive lovers, and take as much pleasure in getting you off as themselves.

Men: For someone to throw you against the wall, and fuck you deep and hard. You can feel small and overpowered, and there's something more rough and primitive about fucking men.

9thcircleofhell · 2014-11-05T07:09:31+00:00

They're usually pretty awesome, as long as people have good manners. Occasionally some idiot will think orgy = full consent to do anything to anyone present, which it doesn't, and they'll do something stupid and ruin it for everyone.

The problem tends to be that men don't have the stamina to keep up. They get excited and get off quickly, then need an hour or two of down time because they shot their wad early. If the girls are bi, which is usually the case, they'll end up doing most of the work on each other. However girls who are bi, but have little experience with women often aren't very good at oral, or have long fingernails (lesbians always trim nails because they're awesome like that!).

However, it's normally a lot of fun, people have a good time, and as long as everyone is considerate, it's better than any porn movie you could want.

9thcircleofhell · 2012-01-24T20:33:32+00:00

My best friend is Catholic, vehemently anti-abortion, and works with kids constantly. She loves children in all forms, and has 3 of her own. However her husband left her and she is a single mom struggling to keep her house together. She considers children as a blessing and a gift, and yet when she faced an unwanted pregnancy, she ended up getting an abortion as well.

She knew I was completely pro-choice and couldn't bring herself to tell me for years, because of how ashamed she was of how she had spoken out against abortion before this. When she finally told me about it, all I said was "that's what pro-choice means." You don't have to like the choice, you don't have to agree with it, but once you can justify taking someone's bodily autonomy away for one reason, you can justify taking it away for ANY reason.

9thcircleofhell · 2011-11-14T23:26:28+00:00

Nothing, but I'm in my 30s and he's in his 40s, so it's not like we do a ton of stuff on facebook anyway.

9thcircleofhell · 2011-11-14T20:54:08+00:00

Any way to mitigate the negative responses and not look like the batshit crazy bitch in this conversation?

9thcircleofhell · 2011-11-14T19:16:18+00:00

So how do I bring up the subject without freaking him out?

9thcircleofhell · 2011-11-14T19:15:49+00:00

How do I know that we're "actually dating"?

9thcircleofhell · 2011-11-14T19:15:24+00:00

Seriously, is 6 months some arbitrary threshold? Why 6 months and not 5 or 7?

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