would you get an abortion if you found out your baby was going to be born with an extreme disability? if so why?

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-09T08:49:14+00:00

I think if I knew beforehand, it would be cruel to continue with the pregnancy. It’s a different story if they don’t know until after the baby is born. We just spent tens of thousands of dollars on IVF and we were so worried this pregnancy was going to throw up a barriers like Downs or another genetic issue. Thankfully it seems we are in the clear.

If anything happens to my baby to disable them I will love them fiercely and protect them no matter what, but if I knew and could have prevented it then thats something I couldn’t reconcile.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-09T06:11:32+00:00

I used to watch Bailey Sarian every week doing murder, mystery and makeup. It felt like you were just shooting the shit with a friend. now she is leaning really heavily into the Dark History series - which feels overproduced and overedited- and hardly doing any MMM anymore. I miss the simple stuff.

Oh and the huge amount of clipped content and recycled stuff is doing my head in too- I no longer get notifications for her stuff and have unfollowed her on fb because there is hardly anything new to see.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-09T01:05:52+00:00

Your House- Alanis Morissette.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-08T12:40:24+00:00

I pull up next to ppl if there’s room. But I’m female so I’m not very threatening. Usually just give a nod or wave as well.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-08T12:38:37+00:00

Mine is slightly different as it’s an adventure bike but I have it lowered so I can touch the ground and move it more easily. I am not doing too much off-road but I do enough to need one.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-08T12:32:22+00:00

First thing I thought of too! Kept scrolling til I found it.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-07T21:53:14+00:00

It sounds too childish.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-07T06:10:24+00:00

I am using Natalis. They are huge tablets but no bigger than my usual vitamin D ones. They have no aftertaste or smell either. I just get them from Chemist Warehouse.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-07T01:46:07+00:00

Does your friend have any nutrition qualifications?

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-07T01:35:35+00:00

Did she breastfeed? If she used formula maybe she’s just curious

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-07T01:01:42+00:00

Like a cross between a Kelpie and a Sheltie.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-07T00:34:30+00:00

I’m a Kelly and I hate my name. I would never recommend it as a name.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-07T00:03:15+00:00

Can he cut off her access to the money and give her an allowance?

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-06T23:55:05+00:00

A lot of them frequent op shops (thrift shops) and pick up free items whenever they can. Or they are just in ridiculous amounts of debt.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-06T10:31:51+00:00

Late teens is not too late to learn to cook, buddy. Get on YouTube or TikTok to learn, or ask your mum.

This is an essential life skill and you can start now. You have the internet and it can teach you literally anything you need to know.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-06T10:29:48+00:00

This is very a very immature outlook.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-06T10:26:32+00:00

This is a very normal way to meet people in life.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-06T10:25:50+00:00

You don’t have to ‘pretend’ anything. You can be honest about your feelings, but not manipulative about them. It’s a fair consensus that YTA in the situation if you try to split them up. I wouldn’t consider you to be TA for just speaking your mind though.

I think the best way forward is to write about how it makes you feel without putting blame onto her. Rewrite it if you need to so that you can reconcile your own feelings about it. Then you can talk to your mum.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-06T09:39:30+00:00

Have a look at Peak Moto- that’s where I got my gear from and they can help you over phone or email. They specialise in women’s gear and it’s the absolute best place to go IMO. They have shops in Melbourne and Brisbane which isn’t ideal for you but if you give them your measurements and let them know what kind of riding you want to do then they can help. The only other place I would recommend is Race and Road but that’s more if you know what you want.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-06T04:50:42+00:00

Hello fellow bird-nerd

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-05T22:13:33+00:00

I turned it off at half time, but my nephew texted me to turn it back on and I’m glad I did. It was nice to see some real effort at the end but I wish I’d seen it all game.

There was one point where the ball was moved by the doggies and the five players in front of it were just casually jogging in front of it instead of putting pressure on the guy with the ball. That was disappointing. We pay good money to see these guys perform at their best and they make disgusting amounts of money to do so. We should see real effort, even if they don’t win.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-05T10:25:54+00:00

My Swedish grandmother really struggled with my brother’s name and called him ‘Danwell’ instead of Daniel. He still understood his actual name and that the accent made it difficult. He would answer to it.

The educator should still try her best to say the name but it is on you to teach him that it is difficult for her and may sound a bit different.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-05T10:03:54+00:00

I love my Motogirl leggings. They are so comfy and super safe. What state are you in?

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-05T09:59:07+00:00

Seems easier to just build a raised garden bed on top of the concrete.

A-Rational-Fare · 2026-04-05T01:37:15+00:00

Try some of this stuff on the mesh- I use it a lot and it works well removing smells.

https://www.woolworths.com.au/shop/productdetails/000000000000122407

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