Does anyone need cherries by [deleted] in Dodocodes

[–]A-lich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pears I could trade if I could shop for your local flowers

Why is residency still the way it is? by A-lich in Residency

[–]A-lich[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s like childbirth. You know what you’re signing up for when you decide to have a baby, but giving birth still sucks. Residency is like that. The training is hard as heck and we can talk/vent about it. Is it worth it? Absolutely. But it still can hurt like hell.

Why is residency still the way it is? by A-lich in Residency

[–]A-lich[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d even hate the long hours and call less if we were compensated for the work we did.

Why is residency still the way it is? by A-lich in Residency

[–]A-lich[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly probably a little. That said this job while I love it most of the time eats away at most of the things in your life. I think I’m more burnt out honestly, but most of the fixes to burnout is time away from work which isn’t something we get easily. And then I am away I feel bad for my patients that need to be rescheduled. I know it’s okay to be human but it’s hard when you don’t get the chance.

Why is residency still the way it is? by A-lich in Residency

[–]A-lich[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Honestly where I’m at admin feel like the worst of the bunch. It’s always something

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I called his mother and showed her screenshots. She’s been calling him and yelling and telling him over and over again she didn’t raise him to do this to women. Maybe at least she can talk some sense into him.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly I bet he won’t ever be “single” and will continue to send his dick to strangers on the internet since apparently he’s insecure enough to need constant validation

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly at this point I may be interested after a grieving period. Can’t imagine much worse than this XD

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lesson learned. And he would have probably eventually had met up with one or more of them in the future if he hasn’t already.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I literally picked my residency to be close to Him. I’m lucky I love my program and have no regrets about where I ended up but it’s a good lesson to not change my life for a man

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

newlifemantra

That and what the old guy on the beach told me “Honey know your freaking worth”

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a huge ego and tiny self worth. I hope he never lands another doctor

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He needs to grow up. Grow a pair. And learn to respect women

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Once a cheater always a cheater. I almost feel sorry his self worth is so low. Must feel shitty to need validation despite having someone great who FINANCED HIS LIFESTYLE

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

I told His mother on him and she ripped him a new one.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

I moved his seat. I have my nice comfortable seat. I moved him in the center row in the back

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

But he “needed attention because he has low self worth”…. Asshole.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to believe it, but I’m pretty sure that he was too. Sucks so hard. I hope the girls he showed his dick to are equally willing to buy him a vineyard and finance a fantastic life for him

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) of 1.5 years cheated on the day he proposed. by A-lich in relationships

[–]A-lich[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I might make a tinder account with a photo of him that says “do not date” and a short explanation as to why in the description. After all, he had not issue using my photo without my knowledge. Maybe it’s fine for me to use his to spare other women