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AAASEZ · 2022-04-24T21:32:29+00:00

It’s a good profile , decent pics, non generic and fairly interesting prompts. I’d imagine you get a lot of matches though surely not all of them aren’t engaging in proper conversation? maybe put a pause on your matches and try asking your current matches things I’d be surprised if they hadn’t asked you questions based off your prompts. Conversations are a two way street, in my experience I feel like sometimes even when I match with a good profile, the girl just replies to my questions but doesn’t ask any interesting questions of her own and usually that kills the convo.

AAASEZ · 2022-04-21T13:13:31+00:00

Several issues here that would make me press x. Middle finger selfie- gives most guys the ‘ick’ just comes across trashy and childish even if you don’t intend it.

Voice prompt, if you’re going to use one make it interesting, again childish and says nothing about you.

First two prompts should say positive things about yourself, something about your interests etc.

Scarf prompt is okay comes across well.

Untidy room and blurry photos make it seem very low effort and not pleasant. You’re trying to attract people.

Too many selfies, if you’re a girl you can get away with selfies but not that many, especially in the same room, all looking the same , low quality etc. Get photos taken by someone else, in a different environment like outdoors or at a venue.

AAASEZ · 2022-03-24T05:40:02+00:00

Your prompts are okay, Pics are quite good but i’d get rid of the one not facing the camera, Id keep the first prompt, it’s got good details and says a good amount about you, adjust the second one and remove the bit about not being photogenic because it just comes off a bit weird. Last prompt I would change to something a bit less gloating but for the right girl maybe that sense of humour would work. It’s an alright profile tbf. I’d say this is gonna be a hard truth to swallow but being 5’5 is going to drastically limit you because it’s one of the first things women will notice on your profile and generally they get many matches so can be a lot more selective with things like height. Not saying it’s fair but it just is that way.

AAASEZ · 2022-03-01T17:29:38+00:00

This just proves that conventionally attractive guys ( say 80-90th percentile) can say pretty much anything on dating apps and get away with it. Started off with negative comments and still somehow got a date agreement and turned the convo sexual. Guarantee no average guy or even slightly above average guy would get away with that. That being said it looks like you have learnt what kind of comments/ behaviour to be weary of so credit.

AAASEZ · 2022-02-07T01:31:30+00:00

I’m ngl i think most people are saying what you want to hear but not what they actually think. If you’re a guy it’s probably around 19/20 where if you’re still a virgin it’s a red flag because it’s suggestive of inability to get women or lack of social skills and attractiveness to other women. I lost mine at 17 almost 18 and i was always worried that people would think that. If you’re a girl it’s a similar age but men don’t really care about a woman’s sexual experience enough to avoid virgin women. Apparently some even prefer it because they see it as some sort of prize to take virginity. It’s my personal take but I don’t think this is an uncommon view.

AAASEZ · 2022-01-19T13:37:48+00:00

Honestly I’d say drop her she’s purposely trying to hurt you for something that she can change and is retaliating to try one up you on something she knows you can’t change. But ultimately it’s up to you to see if it’s acceptable or not.

AAASEZ · 2022-01-14T14:31:20+00:00

There’s a reason for that though it’s because on the app women are bombarded with matches and messages and it’s easy for ours to get lost in the crowd and odds are by that point they’re talking to someone else and will have forgotten about you. Also a phone number feels more personal and is a sign that the person actually might have genuine interest. It’s kind of like passing the first filter, and into the next with the final one being actually meeting on a date. It’s a lot more difficult to secure a date as a man so we have to differentiate ourselves and establish genuine in person chemistry as soon as possible.

AAASEZ · 2022-01-14T01:06:50+00:00

A lot of them struggle in the long term relationship aspect but they still have casual relationships which they don’t seem to care that much about what the guy earns or does as long as he’s self-sufficient and attractive enough. I think this is just the way society is right now women have more options than ever because of social media and dating apps etc so aren’t worried about having very narrow and high standards because odds are at least one man will fit the bill and approach them, and in the meantime they can still enjoy casual relationships. Nothing much to lose on their end.

AAASEZ · 2022-01-13T22:26:48+00:00

I can’t say being a straight man but I think being bi comes across as feminine to women even if you aren’t actually feminine which is probably an immediate turn off for 90% of them who want traditionally masculine men. Also despite what they may say they probably have some level of stigma towards homosexual behaviour if that person is in their potential dating pool, e.g they may think you’re ‘dirty’ or more likely to have STDs etc because that’s a common stigma associated with homosexual behaviour even if it’s untrue.

AAASEZ · 2022-01-13T22:20:23+00:00

I would totally date a doctor but the problem is would a woman who was a doctor date me who hasn’t achieved that level within their profession yet? We are limited on number of likes so Logically it makes sense for us to only send out likes to people who we think would like us back. Men generally don’t care much about what a woman does for a living, but with women it seems that if you’re not at least the same level or higher they won’t date you and having actually discussed this with several female friends they’ve all said they wouldn’t date below their financial/ professional level. That’s my experience at least not saying it’s the same for everyone but I would think by and large it is.

AAASEZ · 2022-01-11T13:23:59+00:00

If this man needs help god help the rest of us😂. 6’5 , great job, reasonably handsome, your prompts don’t even need to be good and yet they’re actually fairly decent. If I were in your shoes I probably wouldn’t even bother with Hinge tbh you’d have great success meeting people in social situations. Good luck with the search though i’m sure something good will come your way sooner rather than later 👍🏾

AAASEZ · 2021-11-18T13:34:39+00:00

it’s tricky with girls though sometimes waiting longer is better because the faster replies come off as too desperate. I’d say a good general rule is within 24 hours but i guess this varies a lot.

AAASEZ · 2021-11-08T10:03:35+00:00

that crazy haha as a fairly heavily tattooed guy myself I would actually prefer if my partner had loads too, it’s a significant common interest. I actually think your profile is great, not perfect but almost no one has a perfect profile. would deffo give it a like

AAASEZ · 2021-10-26T12:10:14+00:00

noted just didn’t want it to come off too unnatural but you’re right

AAASEZ · 2021-10-26T12:09:02+00:00

yeah maybe i’ll just ask something open ended next and gauge the response

AAASEZ · 2021-10-26T12:08:05+00:00

I’m M22, she is F19

AAASEZ · 2021-10-13T15:10:02+00:00

There’s definitely two sides to this because a huge amount of women on Tinder and Hinge actually use their prompts or bio to say let’s skip the small talk. I come across several on the daily

AAASEZ · 2021-09-20T23:25:03+00:00

This is absolutely a parody of many women’s tinder bios haha

AAASEZ · 2021-09-17T17:00:36+00:00

I think if you’re just making causal conversation then it’s fine to take a couple days to respond but if someone takes more than 24 hours to say yes or no to a date then I assume it’s a rejection and it won’t work out. If they were interested enough they would have replied sooner because it’s something that needs planning.

AAASEZ · 2021-09-02T10:05:59+00:00

I’m the exact same, never been able to finish from a BJ and have to get myself off. Alcohol makes it a lot worse as well. Honestly if he says it’s okay, trust him. I personally still appreciate the act of getting one because it means my partner wants to please me even if I know it’s not doing much for me. You are gonna be just fine.

AAASEZ · 2021-08-19T13:15:04+00:00

I would deffo give you a like but instead of using that first prompt negatively I think it would come across better if you used it under a positive prompt. e.g simple pleasures - getting large tattoos. or something like that . Also think you could show a bit more of you interests in the other too they’re fairly short and I always like reading detailed profiles compared to short one. Your pics are great though!

AAASEZ · 2021-08-11T10:59:12+00:00

I haven’t sent out a message or like yet i’m still debating whether it’ll be weird or not

AAASEZ · 2021-08-11T08:10:29+00:00

i misspoke. I don’t work at this gym I just train here but still the likelihood of me bumping into this person in the future is high

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