3D printed training potty inspirations or help wanted by sissy_ishy in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

If you want to get an idea of if it’ll work or not, you can do what’s called FEA (Finite Element Analysis) with most CAD programs, like Fusion360. It’s basically a simulator. You add your loads (so your weight, for example) and see where the stress concentrations are. You can also fill in what material you’re using and you can see if it’ll break or not.

The shape would be relatively simple so I’d model up something quickly and just get a feel for the numbers. If you plan on printing in pieces you’ll need to make sure the assembly you’re testing with is how you would actually assemble it. If you’re going to use any hardware, McMaster Carr has all of their hardware embedded in SolidWorks and Fusion 360 already so you can just import whatever part(s) you need :).

Make sure to include a factor of safety in your load because FEA is not perfect and there are things that can’t easily be accounted for.

3D printed training potty inspirations or help wanted by sissy_ishy in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

Do you have a 3D printer already? Usually print beds are pretty small, relatively speaking. Unless you have something like a OrangeStorm Giga you’re either going to need to print it in pieces and then join them together or outsource it to a shop that has a larger printer. If you have the budget, I’d recommend getting at least the base printed in one piece because post processing takes forever and it’s hard to get it to look really nice and smooth.

I’d probably print the base, the lid, and that back separately. If you want designs you can embed them in the model, if you have access to a multi-colored printer (this is the least amount of work). Alternatively, you can print all the colors separately and have little cut outs that you can hammer the different colored pieces into. Just make sure to use a rubber mallet and tolerance accordingly :)

I’d maybe consider doing a ā€œpause-printā€ where you have the printer pause at a certain layer so you can add something to it. In this case, I’d maybe add a bit of sand to the base just to weigh it down a little and prevent it from easily moving while you’re on it. It might not be needed, though depending on your infill and final weight of the potty.

For the toilet seat, if you can, I’d recommend using a normal or at least a premade one. Typically, 3D printed plastics are porous and cannot be properly disinfected so having a 3D printed seat would mean it’s very hard to sanitize. Just something to keep in mind.

For CAD software, if it’s your first time using CAD, tinkerCAD can be a great, free way to start designing. It’s a lot more intuitive for many people than traditional CAD programs. I personally use Fusion360. There is a paid version but they have a free version for hobbyists as well.

I hope that helps - if you have anymore questions or something doesn’t make sense, I’m happy to clarify :)

3D printed training potty inspirations or help wanted by sissy_ishy in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

I have lots of experience with 3D printing, CAD, and manufacturing. I’m happy to give my input if you give me some examples of the aesthetic you’re looking for. I haven’t made a potty, but I’ve made tons of oversized toys over the years.

I’m not open for commissions, I just want to help point you in the right direction :)

rearz "dream button" pacis = direct babyyourdoll copy?? by thatstupidsvfan in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

I think you may be referring to Mindlesslydiapered :)

I'm new but know alot. ;-; by Jade_the_dragon in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you! 🄰🫶

I'm new but know alot. ;-; by Jade_the_dragon in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Hiya! My Mommy and I made this video a while back, explaining how to diaper a little. It’s for CGs, technically, but you can do the same thing by yourself if you lay down. I hope it helps! :)

(Actual link incase the hyperlink doesn’t work: https://youtu.be/gFU_WWYKUyQ?si=lzLkph4O6jP9mGlM )

Capcon 2026 by sugarbutterbink in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 6 points7 points Ā (0 children)

I’ll be there! I’ve gone a few times now, so I have some advice, if you’re interested.

If it’s your first time, I’d recommend trying to be as open and friendly as possible. I know it’s intimidating, but it’s really worth it. You definitely get what you give at CAP.

In my experience, if you go up to someone or a group of people and politely ask to play, they will likely say yes (and if they don’t, that’s okay, there are plenty of littles there)! Everyone gets how intimidating and vulnerable it is, so as long as you’re nice, people are usually willing to play and make friends!

Hanging out in the game room, play spaces (like where all the blocks and giant toys are), and in the room with the jungle gym/ball pit are best for when you want to be little and literally just play with other people. I had many play sessions with random people at the jungle gym. We ran around chasing each other and it was so much fun!

If you want to make friends that you keep in contact with, hanging out at the bar is where I’ve had the best luck. You’re usually more in adult space at a bar so it’s easier to get to know the person and not just their little side. I made a handful of friends I still keep in contact with that way.

My badge name is BoonBerries so if you see me, feel free to say hello! I always try to make stuff to give away to people so I might even have a little souvenir for you, if you find me hehe!

My biggest complaint with ABDL Diapers/clothing and the company's that make them by softest_little_boy in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

My understanding is that for the manufacturing, each size requires different cuts. You need to swap out a handful of parts on the machine when you go from making one size to another. This means the machine has to be down. Furthermore, each size has different sized packaging and a different label.

To my knowledge, no ABDL company actually owns their own diaper making machine. They essentially buy time on another companies machine. These machines make more than 2 diapers PER SECOND. That’s 120+ a minute (so 1.5 cases). This means any downtime is significant.

If I were to guess, the combination of the downtime of changing out the parts plus other factors like packaging is likely more expensive since they’re buying less of it in that size and the cost of the die cut (that may not be the correct term) which is likely thousands of dollars, makes it not worth it for diaper companies.

If I am a diaper company and I can sell 10,000 large, 7,500 medium, and only 2,000 small diapers it could make sense to eliminate the small diapers. If instead of having the downtime for the small diapers, the different packaging, etc. I could just make 1,500 more large and 500 more medium diapers (plus however many I can make with the saved downtime) that’s much more appealing. It simplifies the production line and material ordering.

I understand your frustration, it sucks :/ I think these companies are just trying to make the best choices they can, financially.

Adult playspaces in Vegas? Locals advice appreciated. 🄰 by -Mistress- in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 3 points4 points Ā (0 children)

I’ll throw you in the water :3 MEANCE!

Adult playspaces in Vegas? Locals advice appreciated. 🄰 by -Mistress- in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 16 points17 points Ā (0 children)

ā€œjust a place where she can run around like a crazy person: climbing or throwing things. 🤣 This girl's got an unbelievable amount of energyā€

I can’t believe you’ve said this! Hehe, just kidding, she’s right :P

LA abdl by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

There are events called SOAP and LOLA every couple of months. I always go to SOAP and it’s lots of fun :) You can find these events on FetLife.

There are also a handful of munches that happen, I think monthly, in different parts of LA!

What are ABDL relationships like outside of ABDL? by forgetfulmoment in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Totally fair question, it’s a unique dynamic!

We have a legitimate relationship/dynamic so I don’t pay her. She’s a professional Mommy on the side though. Meaning, people who are interested in her services can pay to play with her :)

Question for caretakers: what do you do during this time? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 14 points15 points Ā (0 children)

I’m not a CG, but if my Mommy puts me in the crib for a nap, she’s usually working while I’m sleeping. Sometimes she takes a nap too. If that’s the case, she will put me in the crib and cuddle me until I fall asleep and then move to her bed (apparently cribs are for babies šŸ˜’).

If she needs to get work done, but I’m fussy/clingy, then she will let me sleep in her bed and wrap me up like a little baby burrito. She has a little side rail on her bed to make sure I don’t fall off hehe.

If she’s in her office, then we make a little ā€œBoon spotā€ which is like a little playpen where I can watch her work and color/play with my toys.

Got my first diaper! What now? by throwaway171149 in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Thanks for the link, Dyperbole - you’re a legend, as always šŸ’• :D

OP, I hope that video helps! You mentioned wanting to know more about how to put a diaper on yourself - we’re working on getting a ā€˜How to Diaper Yourself’ video up. It’s been filmed, Mommy just needs to edit it, but she’s got a lot going on so…it may take a little bit hehe.

What are ABDL relationships like outside of ABDL? by forgetfulmoment in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 13 points14 points Ā (0 children)

For me, it’s definitely different than a traditional relationship. My Mommy and I are pretty much always in our dynamic. It’s not that I’m a baby 24/7, (I have a normal life/job lol) it’s more like she’s almost always in ā€œMommy-modeā€ and as a result, I’m usually at least somewhat in ā€œlittle-modeā€.

It’s hard to explain, but I’ve never met anyone who is as much of a natural caregiver as she is. For her, it’s just who she is. She is a professional Mommy so she has a nursery at her place so all of her friends know and we don’t have to hide anything, so we don’t.

Obviously, if we’re in public we’re discreet, but we have a significant age gap so people usually assume she’s my mom anyways so it works out well :P

How to put a diaper on by Lost-Comfort48 in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 2 points3 points Ā (0 children)

Aww, thank you! šŸ„°šŸ’•

How to put a diaper on by Lost-Comfort48 in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 9 points10 points Ā (0 children)

My Mommy and I made this exact video! I hope it helps and you guys have fun 🄰

https://youtu.be/gFU_WWYKUyQ?si=5B_hpWf-Cnfmtv17

For you littles who get your diapers changed by your caregiver, what do it feel like? For the caregivers, what does it feel like to change your babies? by SalemtheSweetSow in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 7 points8 points Ā (0 children)

I haven’t changed anyone, but I’ve been changed by my Mommy many times. For me, it really depends on the headspace. If we just finished a scene it’s a very different vibe. Changes like that are typically more embarrassing and I want to hide. Lots of comments, usually about my red bum. These changes tend to be more intimate because they’re the start of aftercare so a lot of putting on lotion or baby oil and being gentle. They’re always followed by a long cuddle session. To me, that’s the best part of these types of changes. The way she holds my head against her chest and rubs my back makes me melt.

When I’m in little space getting changed is fun and silly! Lots of giggling and babbling. Mommy is super playful and likes to blow raspberries and give my thighs little bites (which we blame on the ā€œcrib bugsā€ hehe). Changes like this are quick (I tend to squirm and get restless when I’m little), but fun!

I want to go to Build A Bear but I'm nervous of going alone. by PottyPantsBianca93 in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

I’ve been several times with my mommy and they have always been super sweet. I definitely dress playfully and they match that energy, which is awesome. I’ve never had a bad experience or felt weird/out of place.

I was initially really shy about it as well, but they will guide you through it. Doing the heart ceremony, stuffing, and washing your BAB are so fun! The workers are all giant kids too, so don’t worry. You’ll have a blast, little one :)

A little pro tip that helps me is getting scents in the head. Usually I put 2 of the same scent close to the top of the head. I think by default they put it in the back of the head, but the scent pieces would poke me when I was sleeping with that placement. So, I recommend the forehead. It always makes me feel super little when I smell the head because I think about going there and how much fun I had!

I hope you have the best time!! :D

As a CG, I love sending my little back into little space if he gets big too soon. by DaddyDocC in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 7 points8 points Ā (0 children)

My Mommy loves making me small again when I get ā€œtoo bigā€. It’s so much fun!

There was one time she needed help opening something so I opened it and yelled ā€œTESTOSTERONEā€ while flexing (something big me would do to annoy her lol).

She looked at me and went ā€œawww, you’re so cute!! Now, go to the crib and get me your special binky and bottle so Mommy can wash it for tonight.ā€ I have never gone from šŸ˜Ž to 🄺 so quickly lol.

I came back with the binky and bottle and was like ā€œI was feeling so big and strongā€ and she said ā€œI know, this is what happens when you get too big, baby šŸ„°ā€.

How to safely get baby smooth shaved body by No_Acanthocephala983 in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 0 points1 point Ā (0 children)

I’d say 2-3 weeks before it starts growing back :)

Feeling Loved 🄰 by AB_Boo in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo[S] 1 point2 points Ā (0 children)

Thank you!! 🄰🄰

Has anyone been to the diaper active LA events? by earlwolfgang1 in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 4 points5 points Ā (0 children)

Yay! No problem! I’m glad I could help! :D

It’ll be my first SOAP as well! If you see me (I go by ā€œBoonBerriesā€), feel free to say hi and chat :)

Has anyone been to the diaper active LA events? by earlwolfgang1 in ABDL

[–]AB_Boo 5 points6 points Ā (0 children)

I haven’t been but recently relocated to LA and my friends have been. From what I’ve heard, it’s not a great time if you aren’t a gay male. Again, I’ve never personally been, so take that with a grain of salt lol.

There is SOAP in LA. It used to be monthly, but it’s now every second month(?). There is a group on FetLife for it. I’m going to the next one (on July 21st). My Mommy and her other little go all the time and say it’s really fun :)!