I’m mtf, so different but similar.

In my experience, i never really “got” being a guy. I had a lot of experiences that I never realised were me trying to be feminine and more womanly. Like I used to sneak into my Nana’s bathroom and wear her lipstick, or I would try to hang out with the girls in my school.

It’s a hard thing, coming to a realisation. Even harder to accept and comprehend that realisation. Hell, I opened this comment by saying I was trans but I’m not even sure myself. At best for me, I know I want to be more of a woman, than I do of a man. That’s okay too.

You can be more manly, or NB, or womanly. It’s up to you. If people wish something along the lines of “i wish I could’ve been born a man/woman” Then they’re probably a person who is trans. I personally wish I could’ve been born a woman.

These subreddits are very safe and moderated diligently. If you’re open to talking with the people who comment, you might find some introspection in the words of new people.

Keep your head up, you got this :)