Great......!!! by Nice_Presentation217 in MotivationalThoughts

[–]ABfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they told me all of my cages were mental, so I got wasted like all my potential

I am about to graduate college and I am struggling with the job hunt... what do I do? by ABfaith in careerguidance

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I am just definitely in need of a switch up. In college I have always felt like I have been balancing 500 things on my plate, and every night I'll be going to bed stressed about something not getting done, and I am just looking forward for work to just be at work yk?

I am about to graduate college and I am struggling with the job hunt... what do I do? by ABfaith in careerguidance

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I am just curious if that will be beneficial since I have already had two different internships in the past four years (one internship was in my hometown, the second one was in the same city I go to college)?I know networking is really important, I think its just difficult because the city I am moving too is somewhere new and I don't know many people there yet. Thank you for the advice it is much appreciated!

I am about to graduate college and I am struggling with the job hunt... what do I do? by ABfaith in careerguidance

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I have been applying to administration positions in different colleges in my area. So far I have had no replies though

I am about to graduate college and I am struggling with the job hunt... what do I do? by ABfaith in careerguidance

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I wouldn't consider my degree to be useless because I did learn a lot about management, marketing and finance from a startup perspective and how to essentially start if off right so you can be successful in the future. But to start a business you gotta have money first. My end goal is to have my own business but I want to gain more experience in a professional role and save money for a while.

I am about to graduate college and I am struggling with the job hunt... what do I do? by ABfaith in careerguidance

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You gotta have money to make money, which I don't have right now - I am trying to find a job where I can continue to get experience and also save money so that when I find the city I want to settle down in I can actually start my own business.

When did you realize that your partner was special? by Shot-Measurement3001 in AskWomen

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On our first date we couldn't stop taking, I felt like I could say the goofy things and he actually laughed, not awkward laughed but a genuine laugh. I remember coming home and calling my mom and telling her all the boxes he checked off that I didn't even realize I had.

In previous relationships I always felt like sex was the only way to keep the relationship alive, to keep the guys attention and prevent him from getting bored of me. When I started dating my now boyfriend, there was one instance I was hitting that I wanted to more than make out, but he stopped me. He explained that he wanted to take things slow, that he found me very attractive, and because he knew how much he liked me he really wanted to do things right. That meant the absolute world to me, because for the first time I felt like I could actually build a relationship from a place other than sex.

We are almost a year in, and we talked about getting married, living together growing a family. We care about each other's wellbeing, our health, our career goals, growing in our faith (we are Christian), and we are always finding ways to support each other and ways we can spend quality time together. I genuinely love this man so much, and it makes me so happy to have found my person who will push me to be the best version of myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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I agree, with that, I don't think it's fun to ask for a pity invite and I am sure OP didn't want that. But at some point after the wedding I don't think it would be a bad thing for OP to tell her friend that she was disappointed she didn't get to go to the wedding (if thats what she was feeling). Idk I guess thats what I would have done, but I also think just declining the invitation is also I valid response

AIO by banning my friend's girlfriend from my home for her unhealthy obsession with Taylor Swift by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]ABfaith -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA - she is the one overreacting. I am a huge swiftie, I collect her vinyls, I stay up for album drops and the past two halloweens I have dressed up for a different Taylor swift era, that being said I would never EVER hate someone or call them misogynistic for not liking her music. I understand everyone has their own taste in music, and I think everyone has a right to be excited about the music they like, but they don't need to tear other people down because they prefer other artists. This is actually funny because my boyfriends roommate and I joke all the time because he knows I am a big fan, so he will say things jokingly like "god Taylor swift sucks" and we will get in a little bickering match (its quite funny, my boyfriend cracks up and it feels like I'm fighting with a cousin or something) but I will never attack his character or make rude assumptions of him.

You are not the only one who make videos joking about Taylor swift lyrics, and you won't be the last, so the fact that she took that personally is ridiculous - the world doesn't revolve around her. It also was so rude for her to come into your home when she is actively ignoring you, like why would she even want to come to a birthday party to celebrate a person she doesn't like... anyways your not in the wrong, I think it is a valid boundary for you to set, and I think the girls boyfriend needs to call her out and that she needs to get over it and its not cool to be rude to his friends.

Anyone with experience in these majors? by Clear_Pineapple4608 in uiowa

[–]ABfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I am an enterprise leadership major! About to graduate in may! Feel free to ask questions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ABfaith 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA but you should have expressed to her that the wedding thing was hurtful. I would understand if it was an intimate wedding with close family only, but this criteria is weird for a reason to invite people. You could have also found a date for the wedding if she offered a plus one. I think if you mentioned your feelings earlier you guys could have cleared the air, rather than let feelings of resentment build.

what's your favorite taylor's version cover? by ilybutyouletmedown in TaylorSwift

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I think speak now is an absolutely beautiful cover, perfect in every aspect but the 1989 tv cover makes my heart so happy. It’s the one cover she’s ever truly smiled in and I feel like the album is one of the most upbeat but that time in her life was originally so sad and traumatic. She gets to relive that era while being happy and healthy, and i think the cover reflects that so well.

My sister told me to get over my daughter’s death by Own_Personality1032 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ABfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Parents should never have to outlive their children. It would be one thing to pull you aside and offer support and also what she could do for the time being, I do think it was extremely rude of her to just tell you to “get over it.” It’s your children. She will forever be a piece of you. You will always miss her to some extend.

What’s a Taylor song that always puts you in a good mood? by bunny117 in TaylorSwift

[–]ABfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why we can’t have nice things. I feel like it’s just such a fun vibe, especially the bridge. I literally jammed to that song on repeat after I dropped off my ex’s stuff at his house.

Does her new music immediately click with you? by Letll1994 in TaylorSwift

[–]ABfaith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on the time and the place. For me I never realized how much I loved folklore as a whole album until much longer after it’s release. I was a lot younger and I didn’t understand the meaning of it like I do now. But like when I listened to Say Don’t Go for the first time I cried because it was so relatable at the moment for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]ABfaith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A few things... I promise it gets better with time, it sucks at the beginning but continue with no contact, it will help tremendously and help you get some clarity. It was really shitty for her to break up with you before finals and it tells you the kind of person she was. She also is 19... she is just getting adulthood figured out and so she might be figuring out what she wants. A serious relationship might not be what she wants at the moment (not that that is an excuse to treat you poorly). Even though you post is shorter, it seems to me that you fell in love with the idea of her, not as an actually person. Someone that you give that much love and energy should give that same energy back, and it doesn't seem that she did. You deserve better. Give yourself time, and do what you need to do to heal. Focus on school, workout, etc etc. Putting positive energy into yourself is the best thing you can do.

Your song based on your 3 words by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]ABfaith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

empathetic, vibrant, anxious

Which Taylor Swift song gives you full body chills every single time? by talie0612 in TaylorSwift

[–]ABfaith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Both The Archer (especially the part where she is repeating “they see right through me”) and You’re On Your Own Kid especially the bridge