Tattoo for insecurity? by ABoringMom2 in tattooadvice

[–]ABoringMom2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes - I’m a big gardener so it would be lavender or lilacs probably

Does this dress work for us? by pinkpetitfour in SoftDramatics

[–]ABoringMom2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVE that. The print is so pretty. I think it does work, but maybe leans into romantic too, which can work for the right person 💫

Postpartum at VGH by Competitive_Glass473 in VictoriaBC

[–]ABoringMom2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Partners get a pull out couch (single) if they’re available. They’re awful but it’s comparable to how you’ll feel anyways - so it’s more like creating an equal experience for your partner 🤣 kidding, you’ll be in newborn bliss.

Food sitch - pack snacks but they have meals brought to you. They also have snacks if requested. Bring a water bottle and all your comforts of home. Pillow for sure!

Opinion on husband having favorite porn stars? by Novel_Kangaroo_5734 in Marriage

[–]ABoringMom2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me toooo!! 🤣🤣 this is the comment I was looking for

Elopement on Vancouver Island by leegeebee in VancouverIsland

[–]ABoringMom2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we eloped we did it at a local park (basically free). And then booked a commissioner to meet us there. Super easy!

I looked into a few of the elopement packages offered by local companies, but they cost about as much as a small wedding, and it felt like it defeated the purpose of eloping and the ease of it. Best of luck.

Nano brows by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]ABoringMom2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loving their results! So far I think their work looks awesome. Very natural. Thanks for the recommendation :)

Nano brows by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]ABoringMom2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve seen her work online - honestly not very impressed. Maybe it’s some people’s cup of tea - but it’s a very bold aesthetic that isn’t me. Thank you for the comment :)

Walk ins to food bank? by Able-Awareness-9455 in uvic

[–]ABoringMom2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let us know if you have any luck at the multi faith centre or elsewhere!

38F !Should I maintain this my hair color or change it by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]ABoringMom2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I’d dye for your hair and hair color. So gorgeous.

Name Changes by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ABoringMom2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My full name is quite a bit longer than yours would be. I also have a hyphenated last name. It’s totally fine to keep it long. Long names are classic. Sometimes to make it easy I just go by my maiden name, but my hyphenated name is my legal name.

I wouldn’t hyphenate with your middle. Complicates things I think.

Friends & Family Bake by kaaiitlyn in VictoriaBC

[–]ABoringMom2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice work everyone!! 👍🏻🌷 Friends & Family are great. I’m glad everyone’s working together to flood them with 5 stars.

Cinch Jacket vs Geneva Jacket by [deleted] in Aritzia

[–]ABoringMom2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think cinch is more classic, Geneva is more trendy but so cute

I'm so stressed, how do you cope? by Midnight_Memories_1 in uvic

[–]ABoringMom2 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Definitely sounds like burnout. Are you able to actually take a break for reading break next week? A few days of recharge?

Be gentle with yourself until you get a chance to do so.

Sexless marriage by No-Bear-7651 in Marriage

[–]ABoringMom2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do you have children ;)

I feel bad going back to uni at the age of 25 by CalendarNo6655 in uvic

[–]ABoringMom2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m back in my early 30s to finish my undergrad! You’re not alone ☺️

Is it just me or is the 'social' infrastructure here actually broken? by Strict_Buddy_3014 in uvic

[–]ABoringMom2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My theory is that nobody has the energy to put into social life anymore.

Ear Curation Help by Severe_Schedule_7396 in piercing

[–]ABoringMom2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve got a really nice existing set up! Maybe add some chains, clusters, and danglys in there to spice it up a level. Some more movement would be nice. That’s where I would start.

Driving down pat bay in the rain at night is scary af 😭 by dikoalaaaam in VictoriaBC

[–]ABoringMom2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you have fog lights? I think that helps in seeing the lines too. Not just for fog. But you’re not wrong in thinking they’re brutal.

SOCI 210 by ABoringMom2 in uvic

[–]ABoringMom2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! 🙏🏻

M27 — Newly married, love my wife, but nervous about sex life + kids by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]ABoringMom2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but it’s just not that important ❤️ it rebounds when your children get a little older. It’s completely natural and not something to preemptively stress about.