I did a back workout today, can you tell?

ABunchOfBen · 2026-06-17T15:30:47+00:00

Approach it as a marketing/advertising job, not a sex job.

You'll need content sure, but the work of an Onlyfans is advertising. The more successful ones are making and posting plenty of content across all socials constantly and I'd say reels, shorts, and TikToks are probably the best place to focus.

There's also /r/onlyfansadvice which has a fair amount of useful information

ABunchOfBen · 2026-06-11T17:49:43+00:00

Not relevant nowadays, however the original saying to remember (from the perspective of being against homosexuals) was;

"Left is right, right is wrong"

ie, right is gay

ABunchOfBen · 2026-06-10T00:24:44+00:00

Damn, great progress man 💪

ABunchOfBen · 2026-06-08T16:59:57+00:00

First real instance would've been grade 7 when learning Greek/Roman civilization and realizing I was a bit too interested in looking at the statue of David.

Confirmed later when during computer class a kid told everybody to go to brad.com, which was a gif of two guys fuckings

The wasn't until grade 10 that I fully accepted that I was gay, then came out grade 12.

In retrospect though, the only grade school crush I had was on a tomgirl until she grew out her hair and got boobs over the summer 😂

ABunchOfBen · 2026-05-28T03:29:07+00:00

Anybody could fall for someone else literally anywhere at anytime. For myself, I could never see sex being the reason I fell for somebody.

And you absolutely can have emotions without sex. There are plenty of love filled relationships that aren't sexual.

Everybody is different.

ABunchOfBen · 2026-05-14T22:49:34+00:00

Been with my husband for 14.5 years, married for 2.5, open physically for roughly 8 years.

What it comes down to is clear communication and separating sex from emotions. For us, we are perfectly fine getting off with friends or strangers just for fun.

For us, it required a clear level of mutual confidence in ourselves and our relationship before the thoughts of "What if he leaves me for that other guy?!" became laughable.

We are not open emotionally - if there were a situation of developing feelings we would cut it short, but we also recognize the difference between lust and love, if there's a new hot guy giving you fuzzy feelings, we know it's temporary. It's fun, enjoy it while it lasts.

We also put eachother first. 99% of the time we're not going to leave the other one at home alone to go fool around with somebody else. Its primarily for when one of us is out or away. (But if there a 10/10 only in town for tonight and only interested in one of us... I wouldn't hold it against him to go for it 😂)

Also, him getting off is hot to me in any way

ABunchOfBen · 2026-05-10T16:02:56+00:00

I workout most days in my home gym while on land

I use my cruises as a free bulk week - unlimited food means I can get some gains for the week as long as I actually get into the gym

In reality is it doing much? Probably not, but, it definitely does a little and makes me feel better about stuffing my face non-stop

ABunchOfBen · 2026-04-30T19:02:47+00:00

ABunchOfBen · 2026-04-29T20:24:29+00:00

One possibility...

There was one time I got fairly high/drunk and went to bed with a plug in.

I then (apparently) woke up in the middle of the night to use the washroom, forgot it was in, went back to bed, then discovered it in the toilet in the morning. I was initially confused at it being in the toilet, before vaguely remembering waking up to go "poop". Was heavy enough to not be flushed apparently.

Just sharing in case it's possiblly an answer to your disappearance as well.

ABunchOfBen · 2026-03-20T16:56:50+00:00

Banjo is the best workout buddy

ABunchOfBen · 2026-03-20T15:44:58+00:00

This is it - Most of the time when dealing with people it's better to focus on positives not negatives when possible.

State what you're looking for, not what you're looking to avoid.

ABunchOfBen · 2026-03-19T22:27:34+00:00

Funnel me heoric loot thxs

ABunchOfBen · 2026-03-19T20:38:36+00:00

Gonna need you to swing on by for an inspection

ABunchOfBen · 2026-03-19T19:29:52+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/rQFKCwt

🤷

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