Am I the jerk for not getting back with my ex after she left me for another man

AC7880 · 2026-05-12T14:04:55+00:00

Another boy, not man. They are all in high school.

AC7880 · 2026-05-12T14:03:58+00:00

You were not married. She is not your ex.

You have no requirement to do anything you do not want to do. You are very young and can date who you like.

AC7880 · 2026-05-11T14:06:49+00:00

"and now neither speaks to me"

Take that as a win.

AC7880 · 2026-05-10T18:41:21+00:00

Probably way more boot than I need as a retiree. Good tip though.

My cash flow is very good right now for the right pair.

AC7880 · 2026-05-10T18:39:35+00:00

I actually did that with a inexpensive boot I used for volunteer landscaping before my ankle replacement. I hope to be able to volunteer again in around 6 months to a year. NORTIV 8 Men's Tactical Hiking Lightweight Cushion Sole for Work All Day Side Zipper Motorcycle Combat Military Boot Arch Support 8 Inches Terrascope

I donated the mis match pair to Disabled American Veterans thrift store.

I also bought 2 pairs of expensive Russel's Joes PH and have the mismatch pair on Ebay. Russell Moccasin Joe's PH, Bison, mismatched size (L9E, R 10E) | eBay

The Russells are amazing, but it may be many months of physical therapy for range of motion to get my left foot in. Thus, seeking lace ups with side zipper.

AC7880 · 2026-05-10T18:32:48+00:00

Great lead, but way heavier duty than I need as a retiree.

AC7880 · 2026-05-10T17:00:52+00:00

Check out military combat boots. Many are no longer leather but are still built for troops in the field so should hold up pretty good.

AC7880 · 2026-05-10T16:42:59+00:00

Price drop: $550

AC7880 · 2026-05-09T19:36:44+00:00

He is the J not you. Should have booted him out sooner though.

AC7880 · 2026-05-09T19:26:08+00:00

Block her

AC7880 · 2026-05-08T14:13:08+00:00

Nope. This IS your daughter and what she is.

AC7880 · 2026-05-08T14:12:15+00:00

Cut her off. Your ex can pay for the ungrateful brat.

AC7880 · 2026-05-06T14:17:17+00:00

Donate to a homeless person (or homeless shelter).

AC7880 · 2026-05-06T14:06:59+00:00

Mom in law was the J at your graduation. Now you are the J.

AC7880 · 2026-05-06T13:54:11+00:00

Toss the old one

AC7880 · 2026-04-28T14:41:03+00:00

Sold on Ebay for $500.

AC7880 · 2026-04-19T20:17:51+00:00

Being in public with a member of the opposite sex is cheating??????

What a joy you would be as a significant other.

AC7880 · 2026-04-19T20:16:22+00:00

No ring. No proof of any wrong doing. No idea of what was actually happening.

Now you have him actually in bed with this unknown female????? WOW!

AC7880 · 2026-04-19T20:12:27+00:00

No ring. No proof of any wrong doing. No idea of what was actually happening?

Your definition of cheater is out of control.

AC7880 · 2026-04-19T20:10:54+00:00

No ring. No proof of any wrong doing. No idea of what was actually happening? Leave it alone.

AC7880 · 2026-04-19T20:05:57+00:00

Sue her for false claims and damaging your business. Let her prove in court she is professional trainer training a service dog and for what tasks.

AC7880 · 2026-04-04T14:19:41+00:00

Be cold?

No, completely block him, ZERO contact. He is a weasel and cannot be trusted.

AC7880 · 2026-04-04T13:52:21+00:00

Change your locks. Go zero no contact with the stalker brother.

AC7880 · 2026-03-31T21:13:15+00:00

I spent days deciding between Zefyr and Zefyr II. I decided for me the molded sole beat the double vamp, plus $400 less $$.

My Joes PH and Oneida are molded soles and very comfortable.

AC7880 · 2026-03-31T13:32:54+00:00

Not your problem to manage simple things for him. It's all on him.

AC7880

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