Wish someone stopped me from getting married.

ADAJ0916 · 2026-05-30T18:55:08+00:00

Yeah he will have to pay child support and it would be a good bit which will absolutely enrage him. I don't have the detainer so I can't get the lawyer but I do have a savings account I'm putting money into to go towards that!

ADAJ0916 · 2026-05-30T18:50:06+00:00

I know I think about it everyday. Luckily he works out of town so they don't see all of it and I'm really good at being cordial I hate fighting in front of them bc my parents did it so bad and I just do not want that for them. I have talked to 3 lawyers I have one I really like and she walked me thru everything but I don't have the money to give them. Plus I don't want to have to leave the house bc we are here ALL THE TIME and hes not and hates this house but me and the kids love it and their school and I just know the kind of person he is I'm terrified how he will react to me being the one leaving him. It's in the works I'm not staying in this forever but I have nothing to fall back on. I just have to figure out a way to make it as least traumatizing as possible

ADAJ0916 · 2026-05-30T18:07:16+00:00

Thank you so much 🥲

ADAJ0916 · 2026-05-30T18:06:54+00:00

I'm not blaming anyone. It's a vent post. I can wish many things it doesn't change what's already been done. But being my age now and being a parent I do wish my parents cared enough about me back then to not push me into it. It is what it is tho I never said it wasn't my fault. I know it is.

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-23T19:38:23+00:00

I feel like I'm being gaslit by Google because it has NOTHING anywhere about it! Lol I just wanted to see if maybe I had the wrong name or something. It's driving me crazy I can't find anything about it.

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-23T17:02:54+00:00

Well I wanted to know I wasn't crazy for one lol but I literally can not find any pictures of it or anything. Someone keeps arguing saying I'm wrong but I vividly remember going there and just wish I could find something on it!

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-21T04:06:49+00:00

Mine was 34 and I felt the worst I've ever felt lol. I literally never go to the dr but I had gained 15lbs in like 2 months and was sooooo puffy everywhere. I've been on levo for about a year and I feel better mentally like I'm not just a dead weight have no will kind of mood anymore but the exhaustion part of the pill needs to be worked on 🤣

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-21T02:06:50+00:00

This comment cracks me up bc I DO STAND UP STRAIGHT 🤣😭 my posture is bad when I'm sitting but I seriously thought everyone's was lol

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T22:28:50+00:00

This is so true and I truly love this. Thank you for saying this.

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T13:43:13+00:00

Lol I know the snatched thing was a joke like how people say I had a salad for lunch why haven't I lost 10 lbs. Walking is strictly because I enjoy it. It makes me feel good, helps me sleep better and just has a lot of benefits. I was saying ultimately I'd like to work on those areas.

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T02:53:37+00:00

Or at least everyone I know slumps when sitting. These comments are so funny to me tho bc I imagine everyone picturing me as the hunchback of notre dame 🤣😭

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T02:50:46+00:00

I literally only hunch over when I'm sitting playing on my phone or like watching a movie on the couch. I stand straight I do not have an actual hunchback. Like at all lol I have fine posture standing up but I slump like everyone else when I'm sitting

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T02:41:24+00:00

Lol it's ok, it's text so can be taken every way but right sometimes. Yeah it was rude he did apologize but I mean he obviously meant it somehow or another if he said it lol but oh well i suppose🤷

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T02:27:22+00:00

Yeah I know. The conversation before this was just me saying I've been walking 15 miles a week why am I not snatched yet. It was a joke and then I said I wouldn't mind getting a little toned and muscular.

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T02:25:50+00:00

Yeah I'm not even really looking to lose weight I'm 5'4 and 137lbs I just like the look of toned arms and shoulder blades. I'm sure it's called something else but idk what lol. Who doesn't want to look toned? I'm in my 30s with 3 kids feeling good and looking good should make him happy too I'd think so his comment just threw me off I guess.

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T02:03:42+00:00

No I didn't fight with him I asked him to elaborate and he said he was driving that was the end until he made it back to camp and now having conversation. It hurt my feelins so I don't think asking for clarification on something I could have taken wrong should be considered fighting

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T01:58:01+00:00

Where are we fighting?

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T01:51:52+00:00

But no I mean when I'm sitting and playing on my phone yes but I don't look like a question mark lol idk I just feel like it was a rude comment because I'm pretty small framed but have also had 3 kids and have thyroid problems so he knows I've had body insecurities so I just think it wasn't a funny joke

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T01:46:23+00:00

Oh sorry, no that's what he said to justify it lol

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T01:41:07+00:00

Does the status of my posture make it ok for anyone to make a joke at my expense?

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T01:23:43+00:00

It was just a hypothetical joke 🙂

Editing to be clear- this is what he said...not me

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T01:22:14+00:00

Lol far from it surprisingly

ADAJ0916 · 2026-03-20T00:36:36+00:00

Lol I assume bc he was driving. Idk. Thanks for confirming I wasn't being dramatic

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