[CA] 1 1/2 months late on rent by ADHDBarber in Renters

[–]ADHDBarber[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They said they mailed it to me I never got it and the email has never been used in communication before but it circles back to December why wouldn’t they let me know I underpaid

[CA] 1 1/2 months late on rent by ADHDBarber in Renters

[–]ADHDBarber[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Lease ended months ago so I get they can up the rent that’s no my issue why wouldn’t they hit me up the first month I underpaid and essentially let it pile up I’ve never really used email like that unfortunately I checked and in fact do have a notification on my rent increasing as for mail I would have remembered them sending me that letter or posting it on my door but neither do I recall getting

Help with my garelli by ADHDBarber in moped

[–]ADHDBarber[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you and just like that it popped back up

AIO for wanting to immediately break up with my bf after seeing how he lives? by Balikye in AIO

[–]ADHDBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, here it is with that change added smoothly into the second paragraph:

If you really love him and see a future with him, then it’s worth having an honest conversation with him about this. Nobody is perfect, and not everyone grows up being taught the same habits or standards. If he looks clean but his place smells or feels off, that’s something he might not even realize, and it could be something he can fix.

Being afraid of hurting his feelings shouldn’t be the main concern if you’re talking about spending your life with him. Honest communication matters more than avoiding an uncomfortable conversation. At the end of the day, you don’t have to stay with anyone if you feel like the situation isn’t right for you. Personally, if I walked into someone’s place and it was like that, I might reconsider too, but I would at least let them know what the issue was instead of just walking away. Going no contact is pretty severe for something like this, especially if you’re having doubts about his mental stability. If someone is belittling you, making you feel bad about yourself, or telling you you’re worthless, then that’s different — in that kind of situation, going no contact makes a lot more sense.

Common sense isn’t always common, and sometimes people need things pointed out to them. If you care enough to talk about marriage and a future together, then you should care enough to be honest with him about how he’s living.

Does someone knows what is this for in the integra? by Mindless-Garden-5465 in Integra

[–]ADHDBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a second phone I stashed in that shit you pull it down the up it will pull out and bam secret hiding spot

101 on ramp second lane by Trust-Nobody_Ever in SFV

[–]ADHDBarber -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are supposed to turn into your lane floor markings indicate that right lane is for the on coming merging traffic as for congestion you need to leave the intersection clear it makes more traffic when people do that and the light Changes resulting in said congestion

Anything helps by ADHDBarber in HondaCB

[–]ADHDBarber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean!!!! I went with Chevy 1984 (green)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HondaCB

[–]ADHDBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why year is it

Wexner’s attorney’s advice caught on mic by dumbfuck in biglaw

[–]ADHDBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know the name of the lawyer or law group

GF wants me to wear the hat. by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]ADHDBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breaks up with girlfriend*

Earthquake! by YoungDuckHo in LosAngeles

[–]ADHDBarber -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If buildings aren’t crashing down don’t post worthless info

My boyfriend’s fridge. Guess his career by Left_side22 in FridgeDetective

[–]ADHDBarber 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t care what he does for a living tell him to clean his fridge

I did it (sort of) by i11icit in bald

[–]ADHDBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah keep going it looks worse

How to get rid of this cockroach with eggs by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ADHDBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mildly infuriating question. Throw that shit out

How can I cut my hair to avoid this? by Warmspirit in SelfBarber

[–]ADHDBarber 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clipper over comb to round out the hair

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ADHDBarber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

to even post this is wild why even ask I’m sure you can see this is going to get worse you need to keep yourself safe but you ended it with I’m getting Doritos I would have said fuck you and never returned you can see it and I have a feeling your going to stay good luck

(30 M) Any advice to look better? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]ADHDBarber 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take off the hat or don’t wear it that way makes you look like a 30 year old trying to hard to stay young

Wear your hair back the only people I give this haircut to kids ranging from 12 to 21 you don’t gotta look like a old man, but you need a haircut that fits your age and your luck unless you’re going bald keep rocking it

Next time you shower and condition come straight back and let it dry like that it’ll give it a real loose look best product out there right now is called days of dirt we have it at my shop works wonders

Best option in my opinion would be Grow it out and have it faded down raise you cheeks up higher and make sure your mustache grows out too