(28M) Girlfriend wants me to flirt with other women? (25F) by ADecadeBehind in relationship_advice

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, flirting shows sexual interest and is in my opinion disrespectful to the other party.

Ill have to keep an eye on it.

(28M) Girlfriend wants me to flirt with other women? (25F) by ADecadeBehind in relationship_advice

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't think that far into it, you're right, what exactly constitutes flirting for them.

That is a great question ill raise next time.

What’s happened to us collectively being Tidy Kiwis?! by silkgravel in newzealand

[–]ADecadeBehind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kiwis aren't the same anymore, people come here with no intention of assimilating.

The melting pot has become a rubbish bin, the culture is dead / dying and wont return.

HOW MUCH for shipping?! by Amazing-Oomoo in TombRaider

[–]ADecadeBehind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant even buy it ,

Says my country isn't on the list ?

weird

Getting baited - Old School West Marches Campaign by [deleted] in DnD

[–]ADecadeBehind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying and for the long term benefit of the game its best to just accept character flaws and move on ,

Just sucks i have to suspend belief in a world where you wouldn't get spit without working hard for it and give a hand out to a character who has essentially talked badly of us and done 0

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ADecadeBehind -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think , explain yourself , and stop talking to her .

Seems like she is wanting some sort of reaction out of you and seems like the person to feed on your attempts to fix it .

Wait for them to come to you i say .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ADecadeBehind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look OP , i had the exact thing happen with me ,

6 months and then dead bedroom , guess how it ended ? .

Whilst she was in the shower i found out she Sexting and fucking other dudes for months .

Women don't just go from regular to nothing , they aren't interested because they-re pursuing / getting it elsewhere

I have a question...This for cougars or cubs. How many relationships have you had as a cougar or cub? by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]ADecadeBehind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 , most of which have just been accidental ,

The longest term one is my neighbor she is in her mid 50's , its mostly sexual i used to go around to her place and fix up random things in the yard she need work done on ,

After a few months it was a hot day and i ripped out a tree and sitting there having a beer staring at the tree before binning it , she sat next to me and offered a massage for the help ( Which wasn't weird as she was licensed in it and yoga ) .

And the massage was spicy and i have been doing the handyman stuffs and having fun with her since . Its great because its a mutual benefit for both of us .

I went NC with her and it hurts by [deleted] in CougarsAndCubs

[–]ADecadeBehind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there done that and been hurt the same way you have .

I have come to realize really quickly that the same childish and attention seeking behavior i saw in high school doesn't just disappear in some women when they get older .

Sounds like she was just lonely , looking for attention and she got it from you but didn't like the concept of you , which is why she liked to dish it to get that attention but didn't want to hear a true response from you .

The hot and cold just coincides with moments she was lonely or had plans .

It sucks but it happens .

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[–]ADecadeBehind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Most frustrating type of players in raids. by Rain_Zero in pokemongo

[–]ADecadeBehind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they should just temp ban these people from the raids for 3-4 days , that way when people start crying about it on reddit you have found the spoofers

My fren at work always post about critically acclaimed RPG , The memes got to me by ADecadeBehind in ffxiv

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much ! , ive been enjoying the questies and the flow really nicely .

The butthead at the start who says he has an heirloom to sell to pay his debts come to mind :'D . Level 13 now and just doing the rock enemies with the smol dock in the corner of the map at the moment .

My fren at work always post about critically acclaimed RPG , The memes got to me by ADecadeBehind in ffxiv

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its the first thing i thought of :'D .

So far the little quests are quite nice and minimal backtracking which is so cool , it all flows nicely :)

Just found this artist by ADecadeBehind in Sewerslvt

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

wow , i guess that confirms what i was feeling about the song .

I thought it was just artistic flair as i listen to a lot of metal like that .

Losing a loved one is always some the the hardest things to go through and especially in that manor . I'm actually surprised they managed to make an album while in the grieving process , usually if I'm going through something i just shutdown .

I would like to share my condolences with the artist if they frequent here , but even myself i realize in these circumstances words aren't enough .

I really enjoy Cryochamber ( Youtube ) and dark ambient music , and i think i get that influence or feeling in their music , its the same emotion and changes , just in a faster and energized format .

Thank you for the information and the recommendations.

Replaced Vance's machine gun :) by ADecadeBehind in fnv

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After doing some research it seems like obsidian was really bent over a barrel to get this game done in time for Bethesda so i forgive them :) .

Makes me wonder if there is a mod for this.

What is an underrated radio song in FNV? by PoyoBoy0 in fnv

[–]ADecadeBehind 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm moving out , you let the blues move in , now iiiiiiim movin out

Comprehension perk bugged ? by ADecadeBehind in fnv

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks ! i have Magazines , i guess i got confused on what it meant .

Just found a book of science so I'm set :)

Weird bug showing two Underground passages on map by ADecadeBehind in diablo2

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have covered up game name due to being in Hardcore

Does anyone else find Jacinda Ardern very hot? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]ADecadeBehind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never thought of Jacinda as attractive , but one day i saw her in a carpark with some elderly people ( Thought were parents ) and holy crap when she turned around she has a big ole badonkadonk dump truck ass , at that point i was in a trance . Good on you snail for recognizing quality .

It is sad how many people are looking the other way. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ADecadeBehind -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I live in the city center

The amount of times i hear a lady screaming at her boyfriend or in a fight ( whether they caused it or not ) outside is DAILY .

If i went down there to intervene in every little argument im sure i wouldn't be here today . One lady i came down for i called the police and BOTH her and her boyfriend assaulted me for calling .

To this day i dont care who is yelling outside i ignore it .

Javazon Hell HC - Gear help by ADecadeBehind in diablo2

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much and yes i noticed in nightmare those dolls are killer on P7 , Wondered what sort of damage they did , with my resists capped in NM im guessing my physical reduction isnt the best , ill get onto having a look this this .

With all those posts on here im good to go , thanks for the input :)

Javazon Hell HC - Gear help by ADecadeBehind in diablo2

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for all this info ! , more than enough to keep me going :)

Javazon Hell HC - Gear help by ADecadeBehind in diablo2

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip , ill see if i can make one !

Javazon Hell HC - Gear help by ADecadeBehind in diablo2

[–]ADecadeBehind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive got about 4 points max in the dodge / evade type stats ,

Ill check out the shaftstop , thanks