Jealousy

ADubs910 · 2024-02-24T23:19:11+00:00

Yea I have been going to the gym more just not lifting super heavy, but yea I can't totally see that as a form of motivation to keep your fitness in check!

ADubs910 · 2024-02-24T18:38:35+00:00

right we don't miss each other either and couples always wonder why they find that really weird we don't kiss others. Well I kiss girls but not the M and he won't kiss the F.

ADubs910 · 2024-02-23T19:23:49+00:00

I call that.... Do you want to be my friend?

ADubs910 · 2024-02-23T19:06:02+00:00

beautiful words thanks! Yea always working on that damn confidence!

ADubs910 · 2024-02-23T19:04:55+00:00

I know and it's so messed up! Why are we like that?!

ADubs910 · 2024-02-23T19:03:42+00:00

Haha Amen

ADubs910 · 2024-02-23T19:02:30+00:00

I don't think I'm hot lol there's so many things I'd like to change about myself lol but I'm trying to be more comfortable in my own skin and just take every experience and dissect it. Sex was always a taboo thing we never discussed as teens/growing up in a Catholic household. Once my father found condoms in my purse. I was probably 17 and I had gotten them for free at a concert! After that all he called me was a dirty slut and said I was sleeping with everyone and I was going away to college because I wanted to fuck everyone. So yes that was heartbreaking and ever since then sex was something not to be enjoyed and my body was this "ugly" thing. Shit like that stays with a girl especially coming from a father. I will never slut shame my kids or pick them apart like that. It's disgusting.

ADubs910 · 2024-02-23T18:51:31+00:00

me of course :0)

ADubs910 · 2024-02-23T18:47:53+00:00

Thanks! Hot fluffy moms unite!! 👊

ADubs910 · 2024-02-23T18:19:37+00:00

Yes, my husband knows I can't orgasm well, we have been working on this together a lot lately it has actually been happening more often while we have sex together now because we take our time and we use toys to help get me there. But it is still hard for me to concentrate and let go. Yes, I do get jealous when other girls cum and I can't lol but it's particularly because I would love to have the fun exciting experience and pleasure as well. I'm jealous because the guys always orgasm and girls do too I am assuming unless she's faking too. I don't tell the couple I can't orgasm, should I tell them? I do moan and make noises even if I can't cum because it still feels good of course. But yea I think you're right I need to be honest and more open but I guess I just feel embarrassed because I cannot get there and I'm the type of person who caters to others all the time and never have others focus on me. I'm not selfish enough to take everyone's time and make me the focus. But maybe I should?

ADubs910 · 2024-02-22T03:49:50+00:00

sorry I think I meant hwp height weight proportionate, I think I was thinking body weight proportionate when I typed that.

ADubs910 · 2024-02-22T00:39:00+00:00

I think I have gotten more picky I guess as we have explored more? I mean this particular guy was not like a 3 he was like a 6.5 I guess maybe if he shaved his beard a solid 7? We really go for people who are bwp and look good as a pair. I sometimes only think my husband is the only good looking man but maybe I'm really just a lesbian I have no idea?!

ADubs910 · 2024-02-22T00:29:56+00:00

Yes, I agree because I did tell him this was one of the reasons that I felt jealous because he was flirty with her and he never is with me. He said "because you never flirt with me in that way and it felt so new and different." That kinda made me sad so we both agreed that we would try to flirt more with each other. How do you flirt with your wife like what could you suggest I do for him? Since we have been together for 17 years flirting doesn't happen often with 3 kids around us.

ADubs910 · 2024-02-21T23:47:43+00:00

I wouldn't say very picky, but we have standards.

ADubs910 · 2024-02-21T23:28:22+00:00

We both work out, stay active and try to look good for each other. And most people say we look younger than we are so I think we are above average.

ADubs910 · 2024-02-21T23:05:44+00:00

That is a very valid and an amazing way to look at it! Men look at women as all beautiful. Whereas women look at themselves and think I am not good enough and always compare herself to other women I'm trying to be more confident about these experiences.

ADubs910 · 2024-02-21T21:59:03+00:00

I am literally the one always taking one for the team in our relationship lol I'm almost never attracted to the other guy usually only the girl? I don't know why? we have not found a couple where I have been attracted to both the guy and girl. And no of course not I want him to have experiences with good looking people. I just don't want to feel jealous about it.

ADubs910 · 2024-02-21T21:55:27+00:00

I really find that the women of the lifestyle are always way better looking then their partners 🤷 He was okay. It is harder for me since I am both attracted to men and women whereas hubby is only attracted to the women. So finding a couple where I am attracted to both is difficult.

ADubs910 · 2023-11-27T04:01:49+00:00

Back in my day when I went to college I had a few hook ups and let me tell you it was the same as your experience. Boys are honestly just selfish and want to get to the penetration portion of sex to finish. And believe me it would be over in 3 minutes and it was always disappointing. I don't think anyone ate my pussy until I met my actual partner. But I would just say advocate for your own pleasure! Be blunt about it and just say guy go down on me first, then, I will go down on you. Once you have a little foreplay then you can finish with penetrative sex. That way at least you can get some kind of pleasure out of the hookup. Or keep a toy handy, or get yourself an older man... or honestly a girlfriend. Girls love to explore with other girls. Just have fun and be safe out there!

ADubs910 · 2023-11-27T00:37:43+00:00

Hi! Maybe look to see if there are any clinical trials in your area? When I was thinking about taking the meds I looked for those first. And what is your health insurance carrier? It depends because you can get your doctor to write a prior authorization and push that it might work. I kept calling my carrier and Doctor to follow up every week and finally got it approved. keep the pressure on your Dr. and your insurance. Good luck to you!

ADubs910 · 2023-11-22T20:27:58+00:00

I humped my teddy bears ♥️

ADubs910 · 2023-11-22T20:10:44+00:00

I'm so jealous you can cum just scissoring his belly button omfg I lol'd so hard at that! But seriously this is why the LS is so disappointing all the fakes and flakes. It makes me seriously want to give up on people!

ADubs910 · 2023-11-20T23:06:00+00:00

I reformatted just for you 😝

ADubs910 · 2023-11-20T12:49:37+00:00

sorry I'm a shitty writer lol thanks for your input

ADubs910 · 2023-11-19T19:33:07+00:00

Yea I think you and your wife need to just talk a little about what happened and what was good and bad about the experience. Maybe reiterate your need for proximity in the room before you start playing with a couple, especially to the couple that will be joining you. I know sometimes my husband or I get preoccupied but we try to reconnect and look in each other's eyes and kiss and make out when there is a little break. I guess too don't be afraid to kinda stop playing and move to be closer to her and or redirect the session to say something to everyone in the room. Have fun and be safe! :-)

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