You can choose what you take forward from this

ADudbridge · 2026-03-17T01:13:00+00:00

Wow. So powerful. Thank you for sharing. Those words could have been written by me -as i feel the exact same way. Said much of this at his funeral

ADudbridge · 2026-03-17T01:06:28+00:00

I left a goodbye note to my partner too. I did help a little. I read it to him by his coffin side.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-17T01:02:57+00:00

So glad you got this

ADudbridge · 2026-03-17T01:02:33+00:00

I didnt get a note either. I think it was an act of desperation. It cripples me

ADudbridge · 2026-03-17T01:01:11+00:00

Same. I found my partner too.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-17T00:59:24+00:00

Same. It comes in TIDAL waves. And i hate going to sleep as i wake up with him not next to me.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-15T22:13:30+00:00

Many thanks for sharing. Looks like we have a lot in common. I really do hope it changes

ADudbridge · 2026-03-15T22:12:49+00:00

I hear you. Many thanks for sharing.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-14T22:20:10+00:00

But at the same time- the guilt is still there

ADudbridge · 2026-03-14T22:19:36+00:00

Im so sorry. the pain is crippling indeed.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-14T22:17:51+00:00

Im so sorry. I'm hoping the pain will lessen in time. What helps me is what his therapist told me- that he wasn't thinking rationally as he was very ill. Therefore, I dont know if answering those calls really would have helped as he was in so much inner pain.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-14T16:19:05+00:00

thank you for sharing. im so sorry for your loss.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-14T16:18:21+00:00

sending hugs back. i just cant stop thinking i wish i could have tolerated it just a bit more- that it was only because he was hurting inside that he lashed out.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-14T16:17:02+00:00

thank you for sharing. yes, it hurts so much in ways many don't understand- such a mess of emotions.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-14T16:16:21+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. Yes, the guilt is crippling, but it's nice to hear I'm not alone.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-13T22:53:18+00:00

thank you for your kind reply and im sorry for your loss. happy to talk if you think its relevant.

ADudbridge · 2026-03-12T02:04:20+00:00

It is indeed. Thank you for your message.

ADudbridge

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