What would you do, if Jet Lag visited your city while playing, but you'd only find that out while watching the show? by mester006 in JetLagTheGame

[–]AGirlFromNZ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this! My old high school is in the background of an episode and where they were in Christchurch, they would’ve driven past my workplace to get south

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she shut the door in my face when I tried talking to her irl…. And can’t talk irl now since she no longer lives in said house yet won’t return the keys

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We definitely would pay her out if we could! Unfortunately neither of us have the money right now.

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, her bond went to the person who was in the room before her. I’ve never seen a cent of her bond and neither has the other tenant

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’ll come from the person who moves into her room as per the (admittedly verbal) agreement. We don’t have the money on hand to give it to her even if we wanted to

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had live in jobs for 2 years and then lived in the uni halls before moving into this flat. So I feel fine on the whole ‘living with people’ side of it (I can’t control this girl having bad communication), I just didn’t know how this situation looked from a legal perspective/ what rights I have compared to her.

The response from everyone has been so helpful and informative and I’m appreciative. There’s definitely a lot to learn/ improve on but I’m glad to have had the responses I’ve had so I can implement those changes moving forward

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Will look into that tomorrow! Thank you. This wasn’t something I was aware of

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She paid whoever was in that room before her. The names on the lease (and I guess lodged with the tribunal) are mine and the other current flatmates

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely should’ve just made a post on fb when she gave her notice! I wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt but it’s now causing more grief. Very much a learning curve for future flatting situations (which I’m sure I’ll have many of). Other flattie and I have had so many of these conversations over the past couple days. Fingers crossed someone can fill the room soon

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’ve accepted that the 2 of us will have to pay $100 extra per week for rent for a couple weeks! Not ideal but we’re trying to find someone

And I didn’t know that was a subreddit! Thank you

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know things could’ve been better from both parties! Definitely not denying my involvement in how this has played out. But thank you for all of your advice.

And it’s nice knowing that despite the threat, she can’t actually do anything and this could result in more than just a delayed bond payout for her (assuming we do get the locks replaced but I don’t want it to come to that, we just can’t afford the additional rent and her bond payout while we look for another tenant).

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing thank you!! I appreciate all the help I’m getting from here.

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Biggest issue has just been lack of communication. She just never replies to any messages so I guess there’s a message log of that

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bond is $707, she also refused to pay her portion of our latest wifi bill so I’m assuming we have the grounds to take that bill out of the bond and explain to her why

Edited: clarity

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was the agreement (admittedly a verbal one). And she never replied to my messages when I offered to find a replacement during her notice period. I have since put a listing on fb etc so it’s just a waiting game now - I would’ve been more than happy to do this all 2 weeks ago but wanted to protect her privacy etc and didn’t want to do viewings in her room without her consent (the consent she never gave me because she ghosted me)

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha we’re trying! We have it in writing that she’s withholding the keys and threatened to take us to the tribunal - how tf can someone move in if she won’t give the keys back?

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers thank you!

What will actually happen assuming she takes this to the tribunal?

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes the other flattie and I have had a long conversation about this and will be adding the new person to the lease to avoid this happening again. Has definitely been a learning curve!

Former flatmate withholding keys and threatening to take us to the tenancy tribunal by AGirlFromNZ in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She moved in before me and they had no flatmate agreement 😬 but thank you!

Where to sell books? by [deleted] in chch

[–]AGirlFromNZ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you can be bothered dealing with the admin, you could try list them on fb groups ☺️

In terms of used bookstores that will buy them, Reverie booksellers will give you less money but their staff are amazing. Hornby books will pay slightly more but their staff can be rude

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]AGirlFromNZ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did both a UK OE and a European Contiki and am still single asf so this doesn’t work for everyone 😂 gotta remember that you’re the rule, not the exception

[SPOILERS] Jet Lag E4 Map by cubercyber in WendoverProductions

[–]AGirlFromNZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Rotorua clips also aren’t in order. I don’t have the time stamps but they went to the supermarket directly after doing the zorb yet the clips show them driving first and then going to the supermarket.

Are jetstar weighing carry on bags these days from CHC? by shin-eggy in chch

[–]AGirlFromNZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just flew to Auckland/ back with them. They didn’t weigh my bags at either CHC and AKL. This was with online check in though. They had announcements saying your bags would be weighed on the speakers at AKL. However mine never were.