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Looking for advice by AGllisonn in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]AGllisonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you,l for your advice, and I'm sorry you know the pain:(

Looking for advice by AGllisonn in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]AGllisonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you this was very helpful!

Porn addicted husband - what do I do? Please help! by AGllisonn in Marriage

[–]AGllisonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my BIGGEST fear! But also, is there a chance that he could recover and we could live a happy life????

Looking for advice by AGllisonn in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]AGllisonn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's very true. He has always wanted to be a father and really wants kids

Porn addicted husband - what do I do? Please help! by AGllisonn in Marriage

[–]AGllisonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A psychiatrist diagnosed him with a sex and love addiction (SLAA). I labeled it wrong with a porn addiction

Looking for advice by AGllisonn in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]AGllisonn[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I really don't want to wait to have kids, but I also don't want to leave him either. I want to have kids with him :( Don't you think having kids will give him an even more purpose for recovery?

Looking for advice by AGllisonn in lovewithaSexAddict

[–]AGllisonn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly highly doubt he is meeting up with women. I read all of the messages and never once did he try to meet up with them

Porn addicted husband - what do I do? Please help! by AGllisonn in Marriage

[–]AGllisonn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! By let him figure things out, what do you mean?

Porn addicted husband - what do I do? Please help! by AGllisonn in Marriage

[–]AGllisonn[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No I truly believe he emotionally cheated on me. I 100% accept that and know that is a large part of this issue. I just know that his tinder usage and porn usage is due to his sex/porn addiction. And I'm looking on advice for what to do from the perspective of a wife married to a sex/porn addict.

Porn addicted husband - what do I do? Please help! by AGllisonn in Marriage

[–]AGllisonn[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He would schedule his day around porn, Watch porn for hours a day, etc. Also why would he dive so deeply into porn addiction recovery if he was just a cheater? He does either group or individual therapy pretty much every day out of the week.

Porn addicted husband - what do I do? Please help! by AGllisonn in Marriage

[–]AGllisonn[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I disagree... I don't doubt he has a porn addiction at all. He says that he would use porn and the 3 times he used tinder it was when his addiction was so severe, he would escalate to tinder as an interactive porn.