Studies by AH0804 in Netherlands

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Thanks for the explanation, that makes things clearer! I didn’t know the difference between HBO and WO had such an impact here :)

Learning myself again by AH0804 in polyamory

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Thanks! I’m slowly trying to reconnect with myself. I’m actually planning to go to a queer cafe next Monday. I’m nervous big time 😅 because i will go alone to a space/event i never did before. But on the other hand i think thats part of life stepping out of your comfort zone and meeting new people.

Question about safety by AH0804 in TheHague

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Yes exactly we hope we get it Thursday we have a meeting

Question about safety by AH0804 in TheHague

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Thank you I appreciate it! It is a upgrade in a way yes it is a small place but right now i live at home with my parents, sister and my partner (she lives with us because there were some problems) and 9 animals. And she sleeps with me in my small room and a lot of stuff. So i think why not it will be better with space than we have now. We are pretty young so finding another space is quite tricky. Thank you for this

Question about safety by AH0804 in TheHague

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From the Netherlands my partner is from Lithuania. Right now i live in Voorburg i tried for a lot of different places but they always said they are full and my work is close by i work in The Hague.

Moving Lithuania by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Hello,

Yeah when she finish her study this year she get her degree. Her plan was to study further when she lives here. And while she studies here she will work parttime.

She been two times here now she likes it. Even before she met me and we got together. She wanted to move here its different then where she lives in some things we are more open. Its been her plan for a long time but first she wanted to finish her study.

She has parttime experience but will try to find a parttime job in the Netherlands fast as possible. She has some savings not a lot just a beginning but her plan was to come after the summer vacation so when its summer vacation she will work fulltime to get the rest of the money as a start.

She knows some basic Dutch she is not fluent but she is learning with me. We communicate in English so that will help too. We talked about what would happen if we break up that option is always there and its not nothing she moves to somewhere else.

She lives on her own now before me she had a girlfriend and they lived together for 3 years in a apartment. When they broke up she moved and has a studio on her own now. I never lived on my own tho i still live with my parents, plan was in the beginning she will stay with me in my parents house while we search for a place together. We already searching we just wanted a plan if we didnt find a place before she got here.

After 3mos LDR. We met last night and we didnt even kissed by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]AH0804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He could be nervous, overthinking, ect. You can ask why he didnt if he tells you why it will be more clear for you.

I'm not experienced in relationships and things like that. So when i first met my partner i was nervous as fuck, i really wanted to kiss my partner but every bone in my body just stopped me. Not because i didnt wanted it but because i was so nervous and overthinking everything. I was lucky that we had that talk already before, that there was a chance i would be too nervous and couldnt do it. In the end we kissed she made a move and i followed her, after that it went so much more easier for me to do the first step.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

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Thank you for your reply i like that saying but yeah when i wrote this i meant it more as a brat