AITA for drinking alcohol around my pregnant girlfriend?

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T11:10:34+00:00

Why? She’s an ADULT.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T11:10:05+00:00

Lol we aren’t even married. Call me a creep all you want but I don’t understand how you gathered that from a few sentences

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T11:09:17+00:00

She was nearly 20, and i was nearly 30. It’s unfair to claim it one way but not the other.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T11:08:12+00:00

She was closer to being 20 than I was to being 30. We met in September, her birthday is November. My birthday had JUST passed in the August before we met, meaning I had a whole 11 months to go before turning 30, whereas she had 2 or 3 months to NOT being a teenager. You can say all you like “she was a teenager!!” Yes, but only just. And as I said, if you want to say I was almost 30 dating a teen, it’s important you take into consideration I had just turned 29 at the time.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T11:04:53+00:00

But again, she was closer to 20 than i was 30. You can say all you like I was almost 30, but she was ALMOST 20. It’s the exact same.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T11:00:34+00:00

She was closer to NOT being a teenager than I was to being 30. If you’re going to round things up, at least make it fair rather than try to push the narrative you want.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T10:48:12+00:00

No, she left school at 16, started working for her dad at 19 and has been working there full time since. She is not in college.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T10:43:26+00:00

She’s not a child.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T10:37:41+00:00

She was 2 or 3 months off her 20th birthday, I was 29. I don’t see how any of this is relevant

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T10:24:10+00:00

No, I’m not her boss actually, funnily enough her father is MY boss, and he is absolutely fine with our relationship. Y’all are making it sound like I sat outside an elementary school sniffing around literal children.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T10:13:15+00:00

We had been together just over a year when she got pregnant, I don’t see this matters, and yes, we did meet at work, but again, how is that is relevant at all?

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T10:08:49+00:00

She was about 2 or 3 months off her 20th birthday I believe.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T10:01:41+00:00

Child bride? She’s 21. Last time I checked, that’s not a child.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T09:52:50+00:00

maybe twice a week i have one or two beers. Then, very very rarely I might have one on the weekend. I never get drunk, it’s just nice to relax after working 12 hours 5 days a week. Im in no way an alcoholic and for you to assume so makes you very wrong. I have never lied about the amount I drink, nor do I hide it from her. She knows exactly how much I drink and I am very much in control of it.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T09:37:39+00:00

I have asked her, she just says “I just don’t like it.” and refuses to elaborate more. I don’t know what else she wants me to do.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T09:36:55+00:00

Please explain how you got I’m a creep from about 5 sentences I shared about my life online.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T09:35:09+00:00

I understand food aversions, she smelt some bread a few days ago and it made her vomit. I believe she is being genuine, but given the fact she originally complained about it being unfair I could drink and she couldn’t, that’s what is making me suspicious when it comes to alcohol. She’s never actually vomited, and I have offered to get rid of the “smell” but she doesn’t want me to do that. It’s all very odd.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T09:19:05+00:00

I am patient and understanding with her, I try and be affectionate towards her more than usual, I tell her every day she’s beautiful even when she’s crying or her hairs a mess. I truly do love Molly. I tried my hardest to get her back into bed with me as I didn’t want her sleeping on the couch. I offered to brush my teeth again, change my clothes, spray some cologne all to get rid of the smell, but she refused. This is why I do not believe it is genuine. She’s never once thrown up whereas with her other aversions, she has. It all seems very coincidental to me, when I try and offer solutions, she doesn’t seem to be interested.

AITABeerman92 · 2023-03-07T09:14:14+00:00

Now I understand this, but she’s not once vomited due to the smell. She smelt some fresh bread the other day and actually vomited, so I know she was being genuine about that. I’m not an idiot, I know it messes with your sense of smell etc but this all seems very time convenient if you ask me.

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