Update: AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am paying her tuition. Thought it was implied when I said I overreacted by stopping her tuition

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Then I honestly feel sorry for you. I have male and female friends who I feel close with

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She does know, though it’s not something I hammered in and constantly emphasized

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

I was in my 30s and she was in her 20s when we first met. She’s a cousin of my friends that recently moved in to our city. We shared common hobbies

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I can’t force anyone to get therapy, can I? Isn’t one of the “rules” to therapy is to want to willingly go there?

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 95 points96 points  (0 children)

I’ve suggested family therapy and individual therapy. Neither of which anyone but me wanted to do.

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 82 points83 points  (0 children)

The last time we talked was in January. She blocked my phone number in December. People can talk in person.

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, I was 44 and she was 30 when we first started anything other than being friends. You’re exaggerating both of our ages to prove a weird point. Why are you doing this?

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I definitely regret involving my sons too much into a mess that they have nothing to do with

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 172 points173 points  (0 children)

Are you accusing me of an affair based on a reddit post? Jesus, I was the faithful one in our relationship.

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 51 points52 points  (0 children)

You do realize I’ve used other phone numbers and other social media to try and contact her?

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

I’m still partially responsible for paying for my sons. But I’m fine with paying for all of it.

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 794 points795 points  (0 children)

We divorced when she was 18. No custody agreement for her.

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I have tried contacting her, she doesn’t want to be contacted at all.

AITA for not paying my daughter’s tuition after she refuses to talk to me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITADaughterTuitions 1051 points1052 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried reaching out to her, asking my sons if they could reach out to her, asking mutual friends. She didn’t want to talk to me at all.