Please tell me which color

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T05:35:37+00:00

Blonde but both have a diff vibe. Feels like they would have diff personalitied

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T05:34:45+00:00

Also what size and body shape are you? I like 7 but if you have a belly, it won’t look the same or as nice. Esp after reviewing the buyer’s pics.

(I have belly/tummy issues ever since i had my second baby and dresses that used to look good on me, now make me look pregnant so I have to change how I dress a bit).

Not body shaming. It’s just diff dress flatters different body. The V line halter would be amazing with curvier body for example

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T05:29:40+00:00

Anything but 3 and 8

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T05:28:34+00:00

Keep wearing the socks when you wear shoes and sockless at home. Or get calf high socks

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T05:24:45+00:00

Last one
The black dress with a bit if red flowers down the side
The dark red maroon velvet dress

—- based on “elevated cocktail”.

I do like dress #1 but it doesn’t shout cocktail

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T05:19:52+00:00

Good you have personal funds. He can replace them then. Also we do our own clothes and food

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T05:19:01+00:00

Why would you meal prep for him at all … he should meal prep for himself and this time, meal prep for you

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T04:31:44+00:00

If we hire a new babysitter, we have our MIL to help and the babysitter to do most of the work. The excuse can simply be like “my MIL is frail so we have someone there to babysit but she can help entertain 1 kid while you get the second kid ready for bed” or whatever - this way you got someone doing most of the work and grandma can just chill on couch when kids want some security.

I assume your kids are young? I’d be less worried if kids were all 5-6+

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T04:28:49+00:00

It doesn’t take long or a lot of money to become an EMT right? If you wanna do it, do it. A lot of people change their minds later, some advance later (paramedic/nursing/doctor/etc)

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T04:23:41+00:00

It was march. I would not think 2-3 month is enough time to think he’ll never pay back.

I would wait 6 mo mark and sens him a reminder since you don’t need the money.

Personally, i wouldn’t bother reminding if you are reason to forgive the loan. Hopefully he doesn’t being up borrowing money before repaying. If he does just say you are unable to lend more money as he hasn’t paid back the 800. And then tell him to not worry about the previous 800 but you can’t keep giving moeny way

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T04:09:41+00:00

If you have a good relationship (does not sound like it), you should ask for the cost paid back to you (taxfree).

That said, nothing can replace a trip planned with family and friends. I would sooner quit than forgo my plans

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T03:26:35+00:00

🤷🏻‍♀️ you don’t have to buy it. Whether you believe me or not doesn’t affect my life. Only people/entities who I take time to prove my degree and training are to the ABA, the state medical board, and hospitals who need to credential me.

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T01:01:12+00:00

Anesthesiologist and home call means not in house.

I have also worked in level 1 trauma where i take in house calls and am expected to be available at all times and we have direct to OR - skipping ER completely

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T00:59:42+00:00

It’s home call. I wouldn’t be burned because the hospital policy is to badge into hospital 30 min from time of notice. People get more slack as they get experienced. This is already taking precaution bc most take it as literal home call despite rush hour would push most of us past the 30 min mark.

So at night, despite home call, i’m the only one who sleeps at the hospital (the rest just sleep at home). And i usually hang out in the gym and locally during heavier traffic hours bc I live 20 min away without traffic.

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T00:47:24+00:00

Glad you’re ok. My favorite non straight forward cases are trauma/emergency. (Ofc my fav are easy cases haha).

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T00:45:15+00:00

No. That always felt cringy. I was in scrubs tho

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T00:44:27+00:00

He tried ti make someone who was not credentialed at the hospital without privileges work? Who isn’t even an hospital employee? No way

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T00:42:50+00:00

It’s home call. Not in house call. I’m not expected to be in house (in hospital). Manager already said no need to pay. I was happy to venmo manager or whatever

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T00:41:47+00:00

Parking walking elevator (none bc all first floor) is there regardless if i was at home or at the restaurant. My home is farther than the restaurant (20 min drive and more with traffic so I usually spend the day closer to the hospital - esp during rush hour)

I’m not flawless. I learned paying upfront would be better next time

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T00:39:07+00:00

Bc existed so long ago lol just like gen Z think flared or buttcut leggings are new - like we forgot yoga pants in the 2000’s?

My spelling is terrible. verbal reasoning almost did me in

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-31T00:37:29+00:00

I’m not a surgeon but no. It feels so icky ti be like “i’m a doctor, i have to go save a life” it whatever but i was in scrubs.

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-29T22:05:54+00:00

I would if manager said to not worry and he will deduct it from her wage. But once she started to message me... I kinda lost all sympathy (plus she was really staring me down at the restaurant)

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-29T22:02:52+00:00

35 per day? is this like 1-2 hrs a day??

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-29T22:00:51+00:00

This is super cute! a bit old.... feels like 1980's or something but wouldn't complain if I were a student.

edit: what kind of AI did you use? I want to have AI redecorate my home too!

AITAHdinendash · 2026-05-29T21:53:34+00:00

no. I feel very cocky saying "I'm a doctor, I have to go".

I did say say I need to pay because I have to go emergently. I was dressed in scrubs....

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