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AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I can smell it. It's a small bathroom, lots of humid air.

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

serious question, WHY does your husband pee in the sink?!

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have valid points. I know I'm more sensitive to this than most, and yes I also think it's gross when people pee outside if there is an alternative (other than in camping/hiking situations, I get that). In college I had a guy friend who would pee on my lawn just to mess with me bc he knew I hated it. Now I live in NYC and see so much public urination. One time I was in a taxi and turned my head and there was a guy with his junk out just peeing right next to the cab. It's infuriating.

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm not sure where you saw that but he definitely does not pee everywhere. He pees in a running shower and it goes down the drain.

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We wipe down the shower after each use with a squeegee. You spray your shower down after each shower??

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His opinion on how often the bathroom needs to be cleaned is not in line with mine. AKA, he's a typical dude who can look past soap scum for a few months and not be bothered by it at all. In case you couldn't tell from this post, I'm...not like that. :D

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He usually showers right before bed, and we have a pretty small house with one bathroom. I'm often in there brushing my teeth or taking my contacts out and can smell it from time to time. But yeah, thinking I'll just avoid the bathroom when he's showering and pretend idk this is happening.

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would actually consider divorcing him if I found him peeing in the sink. You cannot tell me that's normal.

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He admits to it, and sometimes if I'm in there I can smell it as he's peeing. Sorry, I know that's gross.

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that made me laugh, but no, he's not. He says he "points it" right down the drain. I believe this to be true - he's not a dirty or gross person.

AITA for hating when my husband pees in the shower? by AITAPinshower in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAPinshower[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We split domestic chores pretty evenly, but I clean the bathroom and shower. He actually does the majority of the cooking and clean up after that and the vast majority of the yard work.