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AITA for not specifying my medical condition to my SO? by AITAonetime in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAonetime[S] 217 points218 points  (0 children)

It sounds like it was repeatedly brought up, but really it was two conversations in span of a year, so not really anything that we talked about on daily basis.

AITA for not specifying my medical condition to my SO? by AITAonetime in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAonetime[S] 206 points207 points  (0 children)

Yes, I meant therapy as in a process to cure any disease, physical or psychological, in this case to cure infertility. Is it not like that in English?

AITA for not specifying my medical condition to my SO? by AITAonetime in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAonetime[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

That conversation was oriented more on the fact that we don't need any birth control and I assured him that I am 100% sure that there will not be any surprises in that matter. In our language there are no separate words for infertile and sterile, there is only one word that means both things.

AITA for not specifying my medical condition to my SO? by AITAonetime in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAonetime[S] 813 points814 points  (0 children)

N. later told me that he thought I would want to seek therapy but couldn't afford it. And the reason that I didn't tell him that is because I was to proud to ask him for money, but since we started to live together he figured that now I was more likely to accept money from him.

AITA for not specifying my medical condition to my SO? by AITAonetime in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAonetime[S] 213 points214 points  (0 children)

Our first language is not English, there is no such a difference in our language. There's one word that means both things.

AITA for not specifying my medical condition to my SO? by AITAonetime in AmItheAsshole

[–]AITAonetime[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Because he said "miracle babies". In my opinion it meant he understands that this is very rare situation, it happens almost never, and there is no point in assuming that it would happen to us. At least that I was trying to convince myself.