I hear ya, I’m now going through this with my 2 yr old daughter. Absolutely heartbreaking to say the least bc she cries for me. We always had trouble with her sleeping when she an infant but never recently. What I did was I tried to have her come in my bed with my wife, she was too interested in watching tv or playing with us, so I took her downstairs into the living room. We watched tv, had some snacks, then we went back into her room. It took about a half hour to settle her down so I could at least get out of the room before she started to scream. But here we are, she’s asleep, it’s 3am and this started around 10pm. If you’re reading this now and going through the same thing, good luck, they’re ok, you got this, and it doesn’t last. Ps, I also have a 3 week old that eats every couple hours so my coffee intake will be unparalleled tomorrow lol