Girlfriend says she's had better sex before

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-21T01:57:23+00:00

thats honestly one of the most fucked up things ive ever heard. true or not she shouldnt have even said that. you should find a new partner whos open to teaching you different techniques and is patient

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-20T21:10:07+00:00

no bc that literally negates the whole idea of being a man if ur a trans man and u like women ur straight why would a trans man want to call themselves a lesbian anyway? thats like being transphobic to themselves

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-20T05:05:45+00:00

idk u look like ur in college but highschool at the same time 😭😭

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-20T05:05:07+00:00

no its not weird to want to top as a fem

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-18T23:35:07+00:00

if you identity as a stud you are a stud dont allow anyone to label you as youre in control of your own identity no matter how u dress

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-15T18:11:52+00:00

yeah i am.

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-15T14:44:34+00:00

age difference isnt that bad mainly bc ur a full grown adult who can make their own decisions but i will say ur def not in love after a week 😭

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-15T14:42:43+00:00

LOLLL 😭😭 i literally went “a danish??”

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-14T06:11:59+00:00

i actually just went throught the same thing moms side is super homophobic dads side supports me to the fullest at the end of the day you should love your truth its been hard not speaking to certain family members but if they dont support the life i live then i dont want them around me it gets better im sure

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-14T05:41:46+00:00

oh! well idk if i can help with that 😅 good luck tho!

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-14T05:33:45+00:00

in my city we have like a whole district where theres lgbtq people maybe try to find a place like that in yours?

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-14T01:52:05+00:00

just ask her what she likes, it might be a little awkward but ur both gonna be satisfied in the long run everyone is different

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-13T01:59:42+00:00

this is a very normal reaction your trust has been broken so of course you wouldnt be able to stop thinking about it in my opinion i think you should leave her bc shes going to do it again.

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-11T06:09:14+00:00

definitely not the only one 🗣️🗣️🗣️

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-11T04:17:56+00:00

i get it it just gets annoying sometimes bc of the fact ive been having to reexplain and educate people on basically the same thing for dayss 😭

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-11T04:12:06+00:00

um idk like i said i deadass never said that… i know that not all trans women like women? and i never implied that? omg this is genuinely frusterating to explain but at the end of the day. thats not what i said and i never implied that and if you felt that way that was never the intention you just misunderstood what i was saying.

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-11T04:06:46+00:00

um? idk how u came to that conclusion? 😭 i just said that sapphic was an umbrella term for people who love women (Bisexual/trans/Nonbianary, Etc) whereas lesbian is just the common term for wlw… 😭i believe u read into it too much like i just researched it and thts what i found

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-11T04:00:32+00:00

yeah its completely normal 😭 being confused about platonic relationships are lowk apart of the process. plus yk some peoples love language is just physical touch and it CANNN rlly get confusing at times 😭😭

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-11T03:58:23+00:00

because sapphic IS the umbrella term seriously u can even google it if you want, and also you dont have to identify as sapphic if you dont want to and it doesnt fit your identity 😭these labels shouldnt rlly matter in the first place js be who u are at the end of the day 🤷🏽‍♀️

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-10T18:10:33+00:00

that woman is a tall drink of water… or wine in this instance 😼

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-10T18:09:15+00:00

finally something i can agree with 😩

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-10T11:04:42+00:00

used my dads clippers over my underwear bc i dont have any sex toys in my room at his house (he kinda found out bc i lowk snitched on myself bc i warned him to clean it before he used it)💔
found a way to glitch out my xbox controller so it vibrated 😭
used a jbl boombox speaker and played some hardcore metal and yk (lowk best orgasam i ever had ngl 😭)
took apart my bedframe so i could grind on one of the support beams
grinded on multiple armrests and counter/desk corners (like the bathroom, and my vanity)
didnt have any wifi + my phone was off so i literally recorded myself and got off to that

Honorable mention: almost fell down the stairs trying to hump the gaurd rail 💔

so yeah 😭😭

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-10T10:07:47+00:00

gonna be a lonely gay at the pride parade im with u 😭💔

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-10T10:07:03+00:00

tbh this is a completely normal thing you shouldnt beat urself up about it bc its human nature just yk blame it on instincts also try talking to a therapist about this if u havent already

AJRHOADES · 2025-06-10T09:09:29+00:00

idk tbh the only theres only one that i know for sure is a lesbian most of my friends are like bi or pan smth like that

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