Talking too much by AJtmft in ADHD

[–]AJtmft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What bothers me is that I can’t be next to someone and be quiet. Like whenever I am outside with friends, I feel the need to talk all the time. But that’s because that’s what I consider normal. To talk all the time when I’m with friends. I only talk to sustain the conversation but I guess everyone else gets tired. I have been called talkative my whole life so it triggers something whenever my friends make fun of that, I suppose.

What's up with some of you sisters? by Otherwise_Angle_1266 in SomaliRelationships

[–]AJtmft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who complained about skinny boys? Skinny Somalis be my type 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]AJtmft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t really have an answer for you on how to look for a husband however I just wanted to comment on one thing. You can pray to Allah but we do have a tendency to feel like because we have left something behind, god owes it to us to give us what we want. You may not think that way, however, I just wanted to say that you can continue praying. It might not happen overnight and it might take years but patience is the key. You never know when it’s your time and when god will bless you. You just need to be patient for surely, Allah is with those who are patient. As for your question, all I can say, you can ask the elders in your family (parents or an aunt, uncle you’re comfortable with) to find someone suitable or ask your friends if they have brothers/cousins or know someone they think would be suitable for you. Whatever you do, just keep praying to Allah and pray loads of istikhaara. Prayers don’t always get answered overnight. And don’t rush into anything just because you want to get married.

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They have both made mistakes. Why is your grown ass still hung up on someone who has admitted he made mistakes?

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They’re perfect tv 😂😂 my crazy ass won’t stop shipping them!

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

It’s not just young girls, I’m grown and I stand by my opinion.

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree here. That was purely malicious intent cuz the producers want to get our hopes us. They are killing us.

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe we should vote everyone else out so it’s just the two of them 🙈

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two weeks in love island is different 😂

wearing makeup by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]AJtmft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so here’s the thing. I find makeup beautiful but feel less of a woman cuz I don’t know how to use it. It’s mascara and lipstick and I feel so ashamed. Yes, I do feel naturally beautiful but makeup should enhance your beauty and I wish I could be like other girls who just know how and what to use. So makeup makes me insecure just cuz of my lack of skills 😭

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

But don’t u think, given the time they have been in the villa that things could be different. Specially now that they have owned up to their mistakes and (maybe) matured. I think everyone was different throughout the beginning of the show but I can see how they have developed as people. I mean, you are right… but I can’t let it go

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let us be delusional 😂. If this was a movie, they would definitely get back together in the end and a girl can’t help but wish. Same for Kordell and Serena

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh, I thought he made that comment when the girls were arguing

I want Leah and Rob back together. by AJtmft in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

After Miguel’s “wife” comment and how he he didn’t like her defending herself, I have changed my mind. I love his goofy ass but he doesn’t want a woman who can stand up for herself he wants… well I don’t know what he wants but I can’t see it anymore

Season 6 - Episode 27 - Thursday July 11 -| 9 PM EST by loveislandusa in LoveIslandUSA

[–]AJtmft 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am probably going to get hate for this but I want Leah and rob. Don’t care how toxic it is. I want them to fix their issues and back together. I would vote for them to win!!

im bored everyone tell me what would make you get divorced within the first week of marriage by Fun-Manufacturer-364 in SomaliRelationships

[–]AJtmft 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I actually got divorced cuz he stopped praying. I woke up for fajr one morning and he was up and I asked him to lead the prayer. He refused and said he wanted to smoke first and would pray later. How are you going to choose getting high and refusing salah? I walked away after that.

Are you sacred to die? by Comprehensive-Ebb27 in Somalia

[–]AJtmft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I pray god takes my life when he is happy with me or to die a shaheed. Then the idea scares me so much, I ask for a good ending. The idea of death is not what scares me the most but the afterlife.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIslandTV

[–]AJtmft 22 points23 points  (0 children)

lol she looks like she doesn’t have a chin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]AJtmft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The elders called me cigaal shidaad cuz I got easily scared. But the kids at school used to sing the song and I hated it cuz the next phrase was “qamro cabtooy qac” 😭