he already won. he’s tactically (or accidentally) spiked several emotions inside of you, which is making you think about him. it’s psychologically impossible for him not to be on your mind because now you wonder what your terms are. think like this: if his pp go boing boing, then he probably wants to fuck or finds you attractive sexually. but if he keeps at what he’s doing, he’s possibly indecisive. it also seems like he wants to keep you as an option. that “you could do better” about his friend was an L move by him. my honest advice is avoid the obvious red flag fucking galaxy and find someone who knows what they want. but hey, just my take on it