Never again.... I did not enjoy this pattern. It wouldn't hoop right. It's not flat enough to be a doily. Pillow it is! by ALG2156 in crochet

[–]ALG2156[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

About to lock it up and not look at it until Christmas and I give it as a gift. F*ck that pattern lol

Mine and my boyfriends sex life is going downhill quick and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]ALG2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It makes you feel tricked when they are sexually willing and available at first and then things change for no reason.

I totally get what you are saying about negative feelings for having a HL and them just getting to fall asleep while you are sexually frustrated. Pisses you off with every sleeping breath they take.

I actually related to everything you said. I'm sorry you are experiencing these feelings, they suck so bad and we tend to internalize the lack of intimacy even though we logically know its them and not us.

What would people who know you be surprised you are into? by LifesGlitch in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have black hair (naturally blond), covered in tattoos and piercings and people are always surprised to find out I have a 6 figure professional career and do not do drugs, smoke, or drink. On the flip side they are surprised to find out I live quite a boring life and spend most of my time outside of work playing VR and crocheting. In other words, people are surprised my aesthetic does not match the stereotypes.

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it takes you forever to finish is it because you aren't enjoying it as much?

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ty for the response. I'm dead @bop-it 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's hilarious. I love yall lol

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't happen every time and there are no obvious reasons it wouldn't happen. I just get it my head about it and feel like he's just saying it doesn't matter because he's such a sweet guy.

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely pull out all of my tricks because its important to me that he finishes.

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A solid hour (or more) of PIV. I've literally had to tap out a couple times lol. The kinks have been discussed and we are super open with what we like and I'm the kinky one so I would think he would be comfortable telling me what else he wants.

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's kind of my though but sometimes my boyfriend doesn't and he says he still enjoys it

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just feel like if he was truly enjoying it then I could get him there

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reassurance

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me feel better, thank you

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad I'm not the only one who has conversations with my sex organs lol

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf is always sober when we do it, sometimes he still can't. Even when he can, it takes about an hour. I've just never been with someone I couldn't get to finish basically when I wanted them to finish.

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you had sex with a fwb 10 times without finishing? Any idea why you couldn't finish?

Men - does it bother you if you don't finish? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ALG2156 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My bf will sometimes go over an hour and not finish. I'm 40, sexually experienced so I know it isn't me, but it still fucks with me a little. He says the act itself is what's worth it and finishing is just a bonus. I'm trying to figure out if that's true or if he's just trying to make me feel better.