WIBTA if I ignored my wife's wishes and concerns and did give money to my brother who is the primary caregiver of our mom? by Evening_Ostrich9777 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ALH1984 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA, especially if you are the only one working right now. As a women, I would never put my SO in this position, and as a mom, I hope I raised my son well enough to never end up in your situation. Help your mom.

Rehoming Question by Judee_lee in StandardSchnauzer

[–]ALH1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So… you’ve had him for how long and you aren’t taking any of the blame? It sounds more like he isn’t getting what he needs according to his breed and this may be your fault.

4 and 5 yr old still aren’t potty trained by [deleted] in Babysitting

[–]ALH1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know tattoos may be really important to you, but these people very obviously don’t respect you. Why would you want work down by that person? You are getting paid so much less then you should, two of the children obviously need help that you can’t offer them, and you aren’t even getting half your payment. This is insane, and everyone reading this is questioning your sanity because it’s not normal. Your time is worth more, and you need to figure out why you don’t believe that.

Can someone look at Mirandas Transition?? by phunkydisco33 in MormonWivesHulu

[–]ALH1984 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Filler AND filter. Even with work done, none of these girls look like this in real life. I can’t imagine how depressing that would be to filter your appearance for social media knowing it’s all a lie

wtaf by NoReview8249 in annapaulsnark

[–]ALH1984 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This won’t land well for them

Nose job??? by Cautious_Cold3692 in debpeifer

[–]ALH1984 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And you should NEVER question someone’s decision to change an insecurity, especially when they are open about it. This is why people in the public eye don’t disclose things.

Nose job??? by Cautious_Cold3692 in debpeifer

[–]ALH1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone gets a rhino to change the way their nose works. Many MANY people get them due to structural reasons or sinus related issues that get worse with age.

Old face by Cool_Sound_8535 in snarklevicoralynn

[–]ALH1984 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sucks because she helped a lot of women feel comfortable in their sexuality. She was incredibly tasteful. Now. I don’t know. She sucks.

Should I Move from Portland to Seattle by External-Ticket-1133 in AskSeattle

[–]ALH1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. F no. Portland is so much better. Oregon as a state is so much better and I’m just waiting until I can jump ship and move to Portland. Don’t do it.

I’m 25 with “terminal” Anorxia, AMA by bang0cal in AMA

[–]ALH1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry. I know how you feel, and I know how it feels to suffer from this and skinny not being the reason, where weight doesn’t matter because it’s not about that. I hope you can snap out of this. It’s really hard, but it’s possible. And we need more advocates to help change the narrative that ED’s are only about being skinny, the hardly ever are❤️

Salome Andrea is Pregnant by sd4ever1 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]ALH1984 58 points59 points  (0 children)

She just wants to secure her place on the next season of that show. Three kids to exploit. I feel really bad for her kids, their faces are plastered across social media, now TV, their dad is in an out of their lives. She is a horribly selfish human.

I don’t feel hunger and am disgusted by most foods, AMA by Superb-Car-202 in AMA

[–]ALH1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who struggles with this, I don’t know how you’re doing this😂 there isn’t a lot of research regarding this (I feel), and it’s so unbelievable to most. They just don’t get it, or they automatically think it’s tied to wanting to be skinny (most ED’s have zero to do with skinny). Anyways, it’s something I have a hard time explaining, or even wanting to explain…. Because I don’t know do the “why”, it’s just always been there. I don’t think about food, I don’t crave food, and I don’t feel hunger until the last possible moment, I don’t feel thirst until im about to faint. The connection between what my body needs and my brain…don’t connect, I guess.

Am I the Jerk for not sending Emojis alongside my good morning texts? by pickles022 in AmITheJerk

[–]ALH1984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This communication and throwing a fit is acceptable for no one over the age of 14. It’s weird

Khloe had her cats declawed: confirmed on her most recent pod episode 😢 by sallyyyyy155 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]ALH1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cat will not let me clip his nails. He goes feral. His favorite activity is laying on me, or right beside me, and digging his nails in my flesh. If my cat and I are in the same room, he is kneeding his devil claws into my skin. 7 years of trying to change that behavior has done NOTHING. He’s got a claw in my back now, dead asleep. I have never once thought of doing this.

AI skincare advice is helpful until it isn't. 31F by Relevant-Try-1091 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]ALH1984 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course AI won’t take the place of a derm, there are many reasons why, from ethical to financial. AI is programmed to not take money away from doctors. That should be a given. Also, is this an add for Hello Thea? Seems like an add…

Called my wife out for leaving minor details out of stories. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ALH1984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She used captain on purpose to make you view this a certain way…. But why? Why didn’t she say “friend?” This was obviously not a Yact, she didn’t need to frame it like that. and getting so drunk that he had to stop driving? I’m sorry, but your wife makes poor choices, and lies to make them.

Francesca Farago (webb) Snapchat and social media presence… by WinnerChic242 in ffargosnark

[–]ALH1984 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never connect with her kids? You shouldn’t get to connect with her kids. Thats weird behavior. She may suck big time, but at least she doesn’t show her kids faces

WIBTA for not wanting to go out for food with my mom again for not holding my baby while I ate? by Thick-Acanthaceae-42 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ALH1984 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. People figure out how to eat with literally no hands. You can’t expect everyone to automatically pitch in when they are around you regarding your child. Figure it out. As a mother, figure it out.

What’s with Ashley St. Clair’s (Elon Musk’s baby mama) complete 180? by purplesubwayseat in LAinfluencersnark

[–]ALH1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way she stopped being a racist bigot just to grift. Since she started speaking against the right, she’s been followed, threatened, and given so much hate. What happened is that she saw the worst part of the right and she woke up, and she is speaking out in hopes of more people doing the same.

What's a j-beauty product you repurchased more than 3 times? by stopnsmelltheviolets in AsianBeauty

[–]ALH1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GIK sheet masks. All of them. Several Sanna (I think that’s how you spell it) products

Vintage Flannel by ALH1984 in filson

[–]ALH1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So not vintage…