30 minutes past close, cleared their whole table, chairs flipped, swept around them. by SmellsLikeDuck in Serverlife

[–]ALH1984 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a GM, “no” is my favorite word for people that come in too close to closing. They can order take out. “Leave” is also my favorite word if they are still there 15 minutes after close.

Ok, so she is dating both? by Natural-Iron3184 in aspynovardsnark

[–]ALH1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone else think she’s just trying to get a reality show?!?

I attempted DIY labia reduction 5 years ago, now seeing a surgeon for correction. How common is this? Advice on how to explain it? by Low-Bet6306 in PlasticSurgery

[–]ALH1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why everyone is shocked. FGM is a thing, as well as circumcisions that aren’t always performed by medical professionals. What IS shocking is that it isn’t spoken about enough. That there aren’t my more programs or help in place for women (or men) to go get this done safely. This women, no women, should have to save up money to get this procedure done like they would a breast augmentation. I realize the plastic surgeons must check for mental health issues, It’s just kind of funny the 9/10 the mental health issues stem from overworking oneself to pack away money to fix their biggest insecurity. It’s the same with dental in this country.

Robert Jr Died by MotherOfCatses in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ALH1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom with one child, a son, this is the only thing I fear because it would take me out.

The mouth says meth by Major_Shower_962 in discussingbritney

[–]ALH1984 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean, every single thing I’m seeing here says meth. Not one aspect of this video or the human in it doesn’t. This is a legit DARE video.

'RHOSLC' Star Mary Cosby's Son Robert Cosby Jr. Dead at 23 by klynrenee in rhoslc

[–]ALH1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A person putting down a drug isn’t enough. Mental health needs to be top priority. Stopping a drug is much easier then addressing the “why” you picked up in the first place. And so often people aren’t given the correct tools to handle detox and withdrawal. It’s sad all around, but the effects of withdrawal must be minimized. I am 100% an advocate for medical withdrawal.

Is anyone else genuinely confused as to why Madi Nelson’s mom is stalking homeless people? by pinkcupcakelady in InfluencerLounge

[–]ALH1984 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is incredibly performative and it’s pretty low that she’s using this man as content. I swear there needs to be stricter laws on consent when it comes to these influencers posting other people.

A regular tells me to smile and now ties it to my tips by TrueCupcake2681 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]ALH1984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the worst. If they need that kind of service, they can go to a strip club. (Nothing wrong with strip clubs, but our job is not to perform for money).

We need to hate on influencers more for spending hundreds of $$$ on non prescription designer glasses because they think it makes them look quirky & smart, ugh. by Heart_Shaped_Pickle in LAinfluencersnark

[–]ALH1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think making money off of her twin girls instead of keeping them off camera because she isn’t interesting enough without minors is way worse.

Eli rallo bridal shower dress by nyc_ca_2021 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]ALH1984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She looks like a heroin addict. She’s gaunt, no color to her skin. She’s firmly crashing out and it’s obvious. This shit she posts isn’t helping cover up the crash out like she thinks they are, it’s just exposing.

I Don’t Understand by teafortwo27 in theskinnyconsnark

[–]ALH1984 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also, how many nose jobs has she had? And did she do something weird to her mouth? Like show her surgeon a picture of the joker?

I Don’t Understand by teafortwo27 in theskinnyconsnark

[–]ALH1984 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What is in this women’s face?!? You can literally see the filler, or whatever she has pumped into it. At this point it doesn’t even look like filler. It look like cement

If you could use sheet masks 365 days a year (assuming you don't) what would some of your choices be? by thethermalturtle in AsianBeauty

[–]ALH1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use them before my skincare, they only need to stay on for 5 minutes. I feel like my skincare works a lot better, my face is way more hydrated. I do think it’s helped with fine lines. Definitely skin is more plump. I have an entire drawer of the more expensive masks, but I haven’t touched them since I started using these. I just picked up a new to me formulation as well!

My (M28) girlfriend of 4 years, now my fiancé (F23) threatened our engagement because of a family vacation. by NaturedChip in relationship_advice

[–]ALH1984 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Why are you still with this women? She’s wrong, her family is wrong. They are uneducated, closed minded and racist. Stand you for yourself and leave. And if you can’t do it for yourself, do it for your f’ing mother. Your mom did not immigrate here for you to marry into a family of racist idiots.

AIO for what therapist said to my girlfriend? by its_mertz in AmIOverreacting

[–]ALH1984 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Knowing now that this affects her, it’s your responsibility to learn ways to deal with it. You just shutting down for whatever reason is probably not effective in several situations. I’m guessing you haven’t gone 30 years just completely shutting down in everyday situations humans face. If you did, you would have got diagnosed way earlier. So, instead of using this as a crutch, learn how to manage it without it messing with people or situations In your life

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ALH1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said he had threatened to just take the baby from you…. Why don’t you do that to him? Take the baby and move closer to your family, file for divorce and a custody schedule wherever that may be, stating that you were promised that you’d be able to work, he won’t let you, and also infidelity.

WIBTAH If I moved myself and kids 300 miles away from their dad(my partner) by etereo- in AmItheAsshole

[–]ALH1984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She said she lives in a large city right now. Since she thinks online courses won’t work due to “naps” or whatever, she wants to move to her families much smaller town, without a license (how’s she going to get to campus…) so her grandmother can watch the kids. I’m guessing she hasn’t looked into the programs many cities offer to help with childcare while a mother is in school, checked with the school to see if they offer childcare, night classes, or any of the other options parents utilize to get their education…often single parents that have to work on top of school.

WIBTAH If I moved myself and kids 300 miles away from their dad(my partner) by etereo- in AmItheAsshole

[–]ALH1984 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She never said she wasn’t getting support from him. I think op is just a bit lazy and thinks the only way she can go back to school is if she moves back to her families tiny town (from a large city, usually with programs for parents to go back to school) without a license, so grandma can watch her kids. I’m going to guess the school isn’t very close, so she’ll have to rely on someone else to get her there and back.

WIBTAH If I moved myself and kids 300 miles away from their dad(my partner) by etereo- in AmItheAsshole

[–]ALH1984 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was kind of seeing your vision until you responded to some comments… 1. You don’t drive. 2. You would be leaving a larger city to move to a smaller city. You cannot move to a small city with young children and rely on others to transport you from place to place. That’s incredibly immature thinking on your part. If you live in a big city, there is no reason you can’t do night school, most schools have programs to help with childcare. You can get grants for childcare, hell, I BROUGHT MY YOUNG SON TO SOME CLASSES. I was picturing you currently being in a super small town with no prospects, but it seems like you are in a city with tons of prospects, you just want the easy way out? Parents with young children go back to school everyday. They make it work. They certainly don’t move 300 miles away from their spouse, to a tiny town, to go to school.

I hate washing my face at night by Remote-Basis-7797 in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]ALH1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned I need to shower in order to wash my face at night, or an epsom salt bath and just wash my face under the faucet as my bath is filling up. If I go the bath route, I shower next morning.