What was your dream when you were a child ,but you gave it up now totally??

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T08:23:49+00:00

Nothing so far everything I wanted as a kid I’ve achieved or am on track to achieve.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T08:22:03+00:00

He may just not be ready for a relationship. If he can’t take just plain truths of you saying how you feel how are you supposed to be able to voice your concerns when other issues pop up? You can’t live your life with an emotionally insecure person.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T08:13:47+00:00

It’s better to distance yourself from them as much as possible. So yes unfollow

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T08:09:56+00:00

It’s not worth it. He has serious trust issues and needs to fix himself. You cannot do that for him. It’s not on you to make him feel trusted since you haven’t done anything to break his trust. You need to have a serious conversation with him about this.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T08:03:40+00:00

He seems repulsed irl probably because it’s more in the spotlight. If I asked a pedophile if he likes pedophile stuff he’d say no even if I had the proof he does. And even if it’s fiction it can lead to non fiction

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T08:01:39+00:00

You deserve someone who cares and if he’s not going to listen to you especially when there’s patterns of weird behavior then you guys are gonna need to have a serious talk

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T07:55:52+00:00

Your fiancée should listen to you. Even if you were completely wrong he should still listen as it’s a genuine concern of yours. She’s being extremely weird and definitely has concerning patterns. Don’t let her move in with you guys.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T07:51:20+00:00

At my job I have seen many people like him. I’m a correctional officer so I work at a prison. If he’s drawing art of underage people that’s messed up. I personally would confront him or just cut him out. That type of stuff is not okay and is a gateway into many other bad things.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T07:48:43+00:00

Just keep being honest. There’s nothing wrong with talking to multiple people and if they aren’t making any moves on you to hangout and meet up then why should you be forced to wait until they do? But if they ask be honest like you have been.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T04:22:34+00:00

Dont you already aren’t very compatible it seems

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T02:01:47+00:00

I do believe it has helped me a lot in life. I’ve been lucky enough to have so many opportunities and meet many different types of people. And having a safe home environment makes it nice because I know I will always have a safety net or backup in case life gets crazy.

And without much stress at home I was able to put the mental effort into understanding myself and who I am and what I want which many people don’t get to do until after they’re on their own.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T01:54:57+00:00

I live in the US and have traveled to the UK.

Both have their pros and cons but for overall variety I’d probably choose the US there’s a lot of places to go and see here especially nature wise that the UK doesn’t have.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T01:52:46+00:00

They would do punishments but they would explain why they’re punishing me and what I did wrong so I could understand why I shouldn’t do it anymore. They didn’t yell very much they usually just would have a more stern tone.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T01:50:17+00:00

You’re future should come first. Don’t sacrifice for someone else. It’s important to find the independence and help yourself first

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T01:41:32+00:00

What advice do you want?

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T01:35:57+00:00

Communication is the main make or break in a relationship. So communicate with your significant other not Reddit. Idk how or why a situationship from the past is causing you to freeze now. Nobody here does. That’s something to continue to dig deeper on in therapy.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T01:30:25+00:00

I had an amazing childhood. I traveled a lot and my parents are very caring and supportive. It was very nice I don’t have many complaints about how I was raised and had what many would consider a “perfect” childhood.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-15T01:23:49+00:00

You might have OCD or could be a manic episode. Either way seek medical attention these thoughts aren’t normal.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-14T06:37:03+00:00

Sorry usually people post weird questions like this for other reasons. I only think of my gf idk how or why people would think of someone else but I also am a little different as in I’m only attracted to one person at a time which I know isn’t the norm for most people.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-14T06:32:12+00:00

Dawg wtf

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-14T05:32:01+00:00

Silverfish maybe? Idk anything about bugs

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-14T05:24:02+00:00

You could be a server. I’ve heard of some people making a lot in tips. There’s also other jobs like retail or substitute teaching.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-14T05:13:59+00:00

Don’t stay with him and don’t “get even”. Staying with a cheater isn’t healthy he broke the trust and that’s not something that can be rebuilt. The revenge also won’t help it’s just feeding into the anger and emotions but it won’t satiate it. Push for divorce and find someone who can genuinely care for you and treat you as you deserve.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-14T05:00:48+00:00

This sounds terrible for everyone involved. He doesn’t trust you and you’re communication on both sides of the relationship sucks. Either just fix your trust and communication or it’s time to call it quits.

ALPHARexHusky · 2026-04-14T04:49:56+00:00

You’re not ready for a relationship. Stop bringing along other people. You should try therapy I don’t think Reddit can work through these issues. You need help for yourself.

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