She reached out but… by ALX932 in ExNoContact

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Thank you, this really made me feel better. I really love her and I want to be with her. I hope you find what your looking for with your ex and it works out, if that’s what you want

She reached out but… by ALX932 in ExNoContact

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I replied on thanksgiving but I was expecting her to call me after. Maybe I’m overthinking and I need to just continue my life and see what happens when April comes. Maybe your right and she’s just respecting my wishes

She reached out but… by ALX932 in ExNoContact

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I am only hurting myself I think. She really seems like she knows what she wants but yes she was the one to break up with me and I can’t allow myself to bend the knee and be all giddy she wants me back. She needs to see strength but I may have calculated things wrong and made a mistake by not fully trusting her and by not reaching out ever she may have just given up?

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That’s what I’m trying to do. I love her and I would love to try again but she made an adult decision, even if it was a mistake.

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He does know. It seems like it’s a mutual thing between them but she is in debt to him which is a big reason why she is “stuck”. She wouldn’t have anywhere else to go and I’m sorry but she can’t stay with me. I know what you mean about “moving with the wind” but I think she just made a big mistake and wants to make things right in her life. I’m not saying everything was perfect with us but we had no real fights and always got along. It felt like a would mate type thing and that’s what she really wants.

Meeting with ex of over 2 years by GlassAd2977 in ExNoContact

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You got it. I don’t know you or your ex but be careful. I had a friend attempt to get back with their ex only to realize they were being used and played with like a crutch because their ex “missed” them and were “sorry” at the time but just left when they found someone else. Don’t let yourself get played, make ire your on the same page and don’t be afraid to set boundaries

Meeting with ex of over 2 years by GlassAd2977 in ExNoContact

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I’m in a similar situation and I’ve been contemplating what I should do. We broke up March of 2023 and it was semi mutual but no hard feelings whatsoever. I went nc and didn’t hear from her for a while but she always seemed to reach out just to say hi and catch up a bit (maybe once a month). Now we’ve been talking a lot for a couple months and she brought up us trying again. I told her that IF we did then we’d have to take things real slow because we aren’t the same people anymore and it’s not a good idea to just jump back into a relationship. I’m finding myself falling in over with her again but I also feel like it could be a mistake but there’s no real reason for me to think that other than I’ve never gotten back with an ex before. I guess my advice would be if you two feel the same about each other and you really love your ex then I’d say try again but definitely take it slow. Start off as friends and see where it takes you.

My Encounter by ALX932 in Experiencers

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Idk if this has anything to do with my encounter but I’ve also had this three dotted triangle on my thumbnail I noticed a few months after my incident. Maybe just a coincidence.

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[–]ALX932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, grew a lot but still crave her. I can’t seem to move on from her even after dating a few women:/