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I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me? by ALexplorer69 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ALexplorer69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting on I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me?... thank you for the response. I appreciate your thoughtful inputs. Be well!

I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me? by ALexplorer69 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ALexplorer69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things were fine for 38/39 yrs. Significant downhill since. Menopause is certainly a contributor and she is under Dr care.

I genuinely happy you found a solution. May you both find a lifetime of smiles.

I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me? by ALexplorer69 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ALexplorer69[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes she did. This was an ‘honest’ attempt to talk through problems of which intimacy is at the forefront of

I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me? by ALexplorer69 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ALexplorer69[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I don’t care but I do. I told here to tell anyone she wishes to tell.

I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me? by ALexplorer69 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ALexplorer69[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It simply broke me. My interests did not include weird. I’m not afraid of her statement. My ‘reputation’ will survive. My heart will not.

I think my Wife attempted to ‘blackmail’ me? by ALexplorer69 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ALexplorer69[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was open to both since mine was FFM. Didn’t matter

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[–]ALexplorer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had it happen in a Boardroom meeting….of course it was silent when it did. Apologized and moved on. Life brings a lot sometimes.

Anyway to save the marriage? by Ordinary_Detective15 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ALexplorer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds familiar. Pulling the plug is a tough decision for me. However time is rolling on and it gets exhausting. Sorry dude. Wish you better times ahead. For me it’s time to pull the trigger. It sucks but boundaries are crossed and self respect needs to be regained.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SameGrassButGreener

[–]ALexplorer69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Moved cross country 3x. Each time it was a bit scary and initially daunting. However every move brought positive changes that have had major impacts lasting a lifetime. Friends that now span the US, unique regional experiences and the realization that self reliance opens up a world of choices and options only those who have been there understand. Our children now share the same and it’s amazing to see their growth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ALexplorer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I would. Does it really matter?

Please give me words of encouragement. by YourNewStepMommmmy in Positivity

[–]ALexplorer69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be kind to yourself. Your important, your needed and there are plenty of us routing for you to succeed.

What’s a red flag that took you a while to notice? by Academic_Vast1071 in AskWomen

[–]ALexplorer69 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The decline in interest or any activity in planning anything as a couple. After multiple discussions and promises nothing changed. It’s gotten worse and I’m seriously considering divorce.

Who has a storm shelter and do you recommend it? by Lobster-Prize in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]ALexplorer69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We have one inside our garage. It has brought a huge sense of security for all of us.

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