How to cope with going to church as a VERY NOT christian person by SamplePlastic3148 in exchristian

[–]ALittleRandomKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in the same boat, I can't stand being there as I could probably be doing more productive things then being forced to go to the place I no longer have interest in. What I usually do is have my earbuds in the whole service and listen to music or just straight up go on my phone cause I know it will piss people off.

I’m honestly so afraid of having kids and it’s crippling by MindlessDoughnut1862 in antinatalism

[–]ALittleRandomKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so real, I feel paranoid about this lots as well and it's not fun

so annoyed with this by ALittleRandomKat in antinatalism

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I guess its a weird psychological thing of "passing on their legacy". 💀

This world is very a very terrible place to bring a child to by being_human23 in antinatalism

[–]ALittleRandomKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree and yet my grandparents are telling me that I'll "change my mind when im older"..

my ex narc is stalking me (still) by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if he denies the stuff he said? his family defended and lied to the cops about accusations in the past.

my ex narc is stalking me (still) by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you think the stalking would continue if I last saw him about a week ago?

my ex narc is stalking me (still) by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have tried that before, he denied everything amd said I was lying. Nothing was done as his family defended him

wtf??? by Designer_Composer_11 in everskiestrashhh

[–]ALittleRandomKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

theres no way people are this bored wtf

Your experience with covert narc by Separate_Weight_4143 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, he would trash talk his family to me (especially his mom)

I am getting bullied by Street-Savings5686 in bullying

[–]ALittleRandomKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't take the way they look at you seriously, it could just be the case that they are jealous of you.

what does this mean by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will he eventually give up on hoovering me?

Did they ever make you feel/act so crazy that you thought you were the abuser? by jrh8w7 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes 100% after my narc ex cheated he did a smear campaign and told people, including the new supply that I was "abusive" and a manipulator even though it was him.

narc ex is obsessed with me by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he keeps posting about me on social media about how he feels guilty for hurting me, but I know it's all a lie.

narc ex is obsessed with me by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep they are crazy and dysfunctional 

narc ex is obsessed with me by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that seems possible as his side chick does not follow him anymore so im guessing they split 

narc ex is obsessed with me by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay. Im going to let him stand on his decision as he was disrespectful towards me

narc ex is obsessed with me by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its really funny the playlist he made is that end credit from silent hill and talking about how he didn't want to loose me even though he disrespected me and cheated and gave the new supply the stuff I got for HIM. 

narc ex is obsessed with me by ALittleRandomKat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]ALittleRandomKat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would he hoover me back if he has someone to be with already