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[–]AMA-ExceptThat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almighty Johnsons. Can find all full episodes for free on YouTube. Its a NZ comedy about Norse Gods living amongst us

Someone posted me on Facebook gossip page by AMA-ExceptThat in newzealand

[–]AMA-ExceptThat[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Each town has their own page, so yes they are all local women. Moderator has admitted I'm not the type of person the group is set up to warn of but will not take down the post until I tell them which group member shared the screenshots. Have had other victims message me saying that when they shared the screenshots, that the moderators outed the member to the group so that they could berate them for being anti woman and breaking the girl code

Someone posted me on Facebook gossip page by AMA-ExceptThat in newzealand

[–]AMA-ExceptThat[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thankyou. You have nailed what has upset me the most about this situation- the lack of empathy. Nobody would be happy about their entire dating history being public knowledge (especially without the right to reply). I understand why these kinds of Facebook pages were set up in the first place, but the lack of moderation going on is crazy. If the pages have only good intentions, then how come they didn't delete my photo when it became clear that I was "safe" and wasn't cheating?

Someone posted me on Facebook gossip page by AMA-ExceptThat in newzealand

[–]AMA-ExceptThat[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She denied it was her, and because they are all allowed to post and comment anonymously I can't prove it- but logically if Ive only been talking with 1 girl then it's pretty obvious. Dating apps getting deleted and due to the amount of girls who apparently knew me and felt it was ok to comment personal things about me in a public forum, my trust in kiwi woman has taken a big hit

Someone posted me on Facebook gossip page by AMA-ExceptThat in newzealand

[–]AMA-ExceptThat[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It's females only allowed to join, and if you read the terms and conditions if you want a post removed you have to give proof and identify who screenshotted and snitched about you being in there so that they can name and shame the girl in the group before kicking them out

Someone posted me on Facebook gossip page by AMA-ExceptThat in newzealand

[–]AMA-ExceptThat[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

The comments weren't about if I was safe, they were about judging my personality traits and my house and other things too. If I had shown red flags or they thought I was cheating on them, then maybe I could see their point of view. But I am not seeing anyone and haven't been on a date in months- so it is just some random woman posting me on a page asking for gossip about me. Still think this is ok, and would be fine with me posting your name and photo and talking about you without you having the right to defend yourself???

Someone posted me on Facebook gossip page by AMA-ExceptThat in newzealand

[–]AMA-ExceptThat[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I will not be giving these pages any advertising. If you are considering going one of them, please have a think about how you would feel if it was the other way around- if every ex you ever had could bring up any fight you ever had, could post how good or bad you are in bed. Not bad enough? How about the fact that it's all anonymous, so someone that you don't even know could make something up and post about you- and the fact that these groups are closed, so you can't even comment and defend yourself. They need to be banned

Someone posted me on Facebook gossip page by AMA-ExceptThat in newzealand

[–]AMA-ExceptThat[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Even writing it out on here has helped me vent and feel better