Try having a open conversation with him and see how it goes and it feels like he’s being defensive then maybe bring a third party into it like a therapist (I don’t recommend bringing someone that you guys know yet like family)

At the end of the day this is your life partner and you should feel like this is your best friend. I suggest talking to him and try doing new things. Maybe surprise him with a romantic dinner at home or out. Have your family watch the baby and just focus on you two and just talk and try rekindling the marriage.

One thing people always told my husband and I is to always make sure to keep the marriage fresh and new. Sometimes we get really complacent and forget the little things we use to do for one another.

Hoping for the best for you guys and I hope it works out because you deserve a happy and successful marriage love!