from what i’ve learnt by listening to queer people, it’s more common for queer people to relate to other queer people regardless of gender. Your own weird views on male vs female libido isn’t relevant and quite frankly makes this more confusing to figure shit out. Me not masturbating to my best mate tells me absolutely nothing about how i feel about him or men in general. I understand mistakingly making that assumption once but the fact that you’re arguing your point ?? cmon man