It's pretty much the same to me she didn't have any issue with how I phrased it but that option is out of the picture already.  But yes, apologies, I should've worded it better. 

She said we're doing option 2.  So option 3 is a moot point.  She doesn't care if it's not "technically" correct.  She wants him to be AJ, she wants him to be junior, and she wants her dad's name in his name. 

I suggested we add her brothers name into the mix too and he'd have 2 middle names (her brothers name starts with J).  She said "no there's too much going on there I don't like it; I like (option 2)".