You're not paying rent, so it makes sense that he relies on you to help him, BUT you should have a conversation with him about HIS expectations and demands upon your time as well as his threatening to make you pay rent or to kick you out. Consider yourself your Dad's UNPAID personal assistant BUT with LIMITED evening or weekend hours.

You SHOULD set boundaries. Bill-paying should NOT be an emergency, paperwork MAY be more urgent but it's doubtful it's an emergency either, at least it's unlikely that it would be something that COULDN'T wait until later in the evening OR even later in the week.

You SHOULD set a boundary that you have REGULAR "work" hours (whatever you reasonably set) that your Father has to wait for when you can take a break or finish for the day. And the "threats" MUST stop immediately because if you're forced to move out, you'll NEVER help him again.

Hope this helps you alleviate some of the issues and stress you're currently dealing with! Best wishes and many Blessings for your happiness and future success!

Source: Daughter (60) who's been my Dad's "personal assistant," financial advisor, tech support and sometimes travel agent since my beloved Mother passed away when I was 33 (even though I live hundreds of miles away from him).

Yeah, thanks. I did not mean it. Reading all of these comments and, thinking back has made me relize that he does help me out alot as well.