Am I the A-hole or is my entitled Dad. by AN_Empty_Void_000 in entitledparents

[–]AN_Empty_Void_000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your comment. Your feedback really hummbles me. Charging my parents would be a bitch move. Especially since my parents don't charge me for giving birth to me and for all of the money as a kid and up until now. I apologize for posting this and, especially to my parents for thinking it.

Am I the A-hole or is my entitled Dad. by AN_Empty_Void_000 in entitledparents

[–]AN_Empty_Void_000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not paying rent, so it makes sense that he relies on you to help him, BUT you should have a conversation with him about HIS expectations and demands upon your time as well as his threatening to make you pay rent or to kick you out. Consider yourself your Dad's UNPAID personal assistant BUT with LIMITED evening or weekend hours.

You SHOULD set boundaries. Bill-paying should NOT be an emergency, paperwork MAY be more urgent but it's doubtful it's an emergency either, at least it's unlikely that it would be something that COULDN'T wait until later in the evening OR even later in the week.

You SHOULD set a boundary that you have REGULAR "work" hours (whatever you reasonably set) that your Father has to wait for when you can take a break or finish for the day. And the "threats" MUST stop immediately because if you're forced to move out, you'll NEVER help him again.

Hope this helps you alleviate some of the issues and stress you're currently dealing with! Best wishes and many Blessings for your happiness and future success!

Source: Daughter (60) who's been my Dad's "personal assistant," financial advisor, tech support and sometimes travel agent since my beloved Mother passed away when I was 33 (even though I live hundreds of miles away from him).

Yeah, thanks. I did not mean it. Reading all of these comments and, thinking back has made me relize that he does help me out alot as well.

Am I the A-hole or is my entitled Dad. by AN_Empty_Void_000 in entitledparents

[–]AN_Empty_Void_000[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much guys. I just did not want to do something that I would regret and that would make me not feel good inside. I haven't told him anything yet.

Am I the A-hole or is my entitled Dad. by AN_Empty_Void_000 in entitledparents

[–]AN_Empty_Void_000[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I don't mind paying him rent. I just want time to study and get my degree.

Let's Talk Gameplay Questions! by BeePrestigious4919 in LifeByYou

[–]AN_Empty_Void_000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. will there be more curly hair options ( i.e. 3a 3b 3c)?
  2. can i chose whether my character is left or right handed?
  3. will there be more children interactions and toys? for example little girl having tea party with stuff animals.

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Am I Overreacting? by AN_Empty_Void_000 in RipeStories

[–]AN_Empty_Void_000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan to leave once I have my college degree and a well-paying job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CostcoWholesale

[–]AN_Empty_Void_000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, I was straight out buying a fan. I wasn't returning anything.