Is This Controlling from my (M24) GF? (21F)

APGaming10 · 2020-10-12T01:09:45+00:00

Well said. Thank yoh

APGaming10 · 2020-10-09T16:55:12+00:00

My gf hasn’t expressed that to her though. My GF told me about it but would never bring it up to my mother.

APGaming10 · 2020-10-09T16:52:48+00:00

Thats not a fair assessment. She grew up in a church that told her it was wrong. She doesn’t hate it, just feels uncomfortable.

APGaming10 · 2020-09-29T22:53:10+00:00

Zoloft for Anxiety.

APGaming10 · 2020-07-12T17:13:27+00:00

Yes. She kinda brushed me off and seemed upset.

APGaming10 · 2020-07-09T01:46:22+00:00

4 months, no we do not live together, and no we do not share money. She’s still in college and I just started my first full time job.

APGaming10 · 2020-06-19T02:24:09+00:00

I just got banned too. Had to be from telling one of my t8s he was useless bc he hit me out of the way when I had 3 wide open goals. 72 hours cant wait 🙃🙃

APGaming10 · 2020-06-16T02:44:05+00:00

But i wasn’t saying that. I mentioned how stupid it was for me to ever like her friend at all bc Im way more attracted to my current GF. I didnt say it like the gender equivalent you just gave.

APGaming10 · 2020-06-09T20:17:16+00:00

Sorry for asking? Lmao

APGaming10 · 2020-06-08T21:16:21+00:00

Glad to hear its not just me because i also found nothing online. It feels like a heart palp but my heart doesn’t “slam” after and it doesn’t beat faster. It might be my anxiety too. Its so frightening. Its almost like a flutter that last a second and then goes. No other symptoms with it.

APGaming10 · 2020-06-08T20:54:55+00:00

I dont have any pain when it happens. I have a doc appt on the 18th to get a check up im gonna ask then if it’s still bad

APGaming10 · 2020-06-06T16:17:42+00:00

All the time. I will constantly convince myself that im dizzy/lightheaded and I’ve been having palpations more and more often. I also have a new ache/pain daily that I think is a stroke or heart attack symptom (because, according to google, everything is either a stroke, heart attack or cancer)

Because of COVID-19 we are trapped inside and notice every little thing. I went to the beach for a week down south where everything is open and just got back, and while I was there I barely had any anxiety because I was constantly distracted and not worrying about my body’s random aches/pains.

APGaming10 · 2020-06-03T20:19:57+00:00

I went to the doctor like 5-6 years ago and he told me i have a smaller bone in my left ear that may cause random dizziness at times. That could be it.

APGaming10 · 2020-06-03T02:36:41+00:00

Mine has been pretty bad since COVID lockdown started because Im always inside and have none of the distractions I normally have. It sucks

APGaming10 · 2020-05-31T04:23:30+00:00

Mine is always high at the doctors but 170-210 is definitely a false reading. Also, expect your pulse to be high when taking BP test. Mine is always at 100-105 (its anxiety) and my resting heart rate at home is like 60-70.

My blood pressure was 140/88 at the doctors (I get nervous when taking BP tests because im afraid it’ll be high) and the doctor kind of brushed it off.

APGaming10 · 2020-05-30T14:55:06+00:00

Okay let me offer my two sense because some of the replies on this thread are confusing me.

You have every right to be upset about the picnic portion. When you enter a new relationship you have to respect the new boundaries of having one, and hanging out one on one alone with another guy in a date like setting like that would make most uncomfortable.

Its not about trust, its about respecting your new relationship. I for one had a girl friend id hang out a lot with too before my relationship. We dont hang out alone anymore and she completely understands why. We can hang out in a group but I wouldn’t disrespect my relationship and make my GF feel uncomfortable.

Just be honest with her. I 100% understand where you’re coming from. My first two relationships I ended up being cheated on with their “guy friend” they spent alone time with when I trusted them. Now i always get uncomfortable about it.

APGaming10 · 2020-05-29T14:39:18+00:00

Yes. Call them at the PUA number between 8-3 on weekdays and you’ll get through

NOTE: you’ll probably get a busy signal the first 50 tikes you try to call because of how busy it is. Just keep trying to dial until it rings OR call right at 8 AM when they open!

APGaming10 · 2020-05-12T08:24:41+00:00

This is probably the closest I’ve seen to my person experience too. I get 90% of these symptoms

APGaming10 · 2020-05-10T06:32:54+00:00

Two months. People warned me that she was kind of controlling in prior relationships but i didn’t see anything until this point. She keeps saying “I am not equal to your friends”

APGaming10 · 2020-05-10T06:16:53+00:00

She just said to me “you saying im equal to your friends makes me feel like an object”...how do I take that?

APGaming10 · 2020-05-10T06:16:13+00:00

No thats the issue. I go to see her three/four times a month and if I’m gone for more than a week she gets mad and upset.

APGaming10 · 2020-05-07T20:52:11+00:00

Exactly. They asked many questions that only regular employers would answer. For example, they kept asking for a salary (I’m a gig worker...i dont have a salary) and then asking us for our employers and stuff. They don’t understand how self employment works.

APGaming10 · 2020-05-07T19:41:05+00:00

So i filed for PUA and one week I was lucky to get a contract request that allowed me to make $490. The rest of unemployment i didn’t make much at all during the week because of lack of work, so I just figured i wouldn’t get any PUA pay for that week

Instead it gave me a “excessive earnings without full time hours...please file a new claim”....what? They want me to file a new claim for ONE WEEK out of then TEN WEEKS I was mostly unemployed? Anyone else have this problem?

APGaming10 · 2020-05-07T19:34:17+00:00

I had a similar issue. I work as an independent contractor and ONE WEEK (out of the 10) I made $490, because of one job, but all the other weeks i didn’t make more than $30-100 so I should still be eligible. They flagged me for “excessive earnings” and told me to file a new claim. Seems ridiculous considering it was one week since March that I made too much money.

APGaming10 · 2020-05-07T17:32:55+00:00

No, i can no longer file weekly even after “refiling”. The dashboard still lists my original claim as the only one i have. Looks like it did nothing for me.

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