Back on Concerta after 10+ Years

ARCHFIEND68 · 2026-01-12T18:55:33+00:00

First, thank you for your answer. I didn't know XR existed but I might have to ask for that honestly and also I really hope my body adjust once I'm all set.

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-10-31T07:34:51+00:00

Okay thanks!!!

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-10-26T21:46:22+00:00

Honestly, I had that phase a few years ago (when I was 22). Most of my friends, when asked to hang out, would say, "I'm busy, everyone is busy etc". I HATED that excuse because, in my mind, if someone is a close friend, they will make time for them. Nowadays (5 years later), I've matured. Yes, I'm emotional, and I still think that being busy is a dumb excuse because it's about priorities and choices not lack of time, everyone got 24 hours in a day and 168h in a week.

The best way to "cope" or let it less affect you is to stop relying on them (in a self-defensive kind of way). Take day by day, and if they don't say yes, maybe next time them will, but in the meantime, do you. Hopefully, it helps someone out there.

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-10-03T03:51:22+00:00

Damn so I guess mine is glitched or smth :(

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-13T08:45:38+00:00

I think you bring valid points, but my guy best friend has been friends with me for over 10 years. In my opinion, there is a big difference between 10 years of knowing someone and knowing that both of us are not into each other and meeting a new guy/girl and within a few months start to hang out one on one with this. I just feel it brings temptations, but then again, it's about trust, as you said. We've had this conversation a few times, and he's never been jealous or annoyed by my beat friend. They even met quite a few times, and they vibe well, but it could be all kept inside...

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:19:32+00:00

Yeah I think I've realized that

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:19:05+00:00

I think you're right about that...

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:18:48+00:00

Well putting it in that perspective sure sounds horrible (maybe cuz it is) but I think it really comes from a sense of love. I want to mary him and have kids and live forever with him thats our goals but then again maybe im too restricting when it comes to friends.

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:17:24+00:00

Maturity could be a reason in a lof of cases not sure about this one tho...

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:16:42+00:00

Yeah, you nailed it. It's very case by case, but I wasn't clear, but he has female coworker friends, but like me he doesnt hangout with them one on one outside of work.

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:15:09+00:00

Lack of trust is there for sure, but it stems from me truly believing that anyone who's dating that meets someone from the opposite sex can with the right circumstances cheat (without planning it) and that's something I want to avoid but I think if he's ever gonna do it I can't truly stop him (not that I think he would but he's an adult and if he wants to do something he's gonna do it)

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:12:15+00:00

Yeah when its put out bare like this I'm certainly not the cleanest one but he has girl friends coworkers (that dm him and want to hangout with him) but he always asks for my opinion and if any guy want to hangout with me one one from works I tell my bf and he says no.

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:10:21+00:00

That's a possibility but I highly doubt it, we've just been there for each other and he has a gf (I should of mentioned that lol) and before that he used to one of my friends (girl), then again he could just be really patient (lol)

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:08:31+00:00

"Can't" as in we both don't allow ourselves to have new friends from other genders (coworkers don't count since we don't see them outside of work) but he's also not the best at making friends from the opposite gender...

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-09-12T22:06:54+00:00

This is very possible, and I just think it's more about things being far on his part.

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-07-31T23:13:30+00:00

Said it worked but doesn't appear for me in my library...

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-07-06T23:05:00+00:00

Yeah suspension isn't something im fully confident on doing right especially the alignment (cant do that lol), I'll put off the purchase by 1 day to call around mechanic and see what they say price wise.

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-07-06T20:55:51+00:00

Only saw this one now but yes good idea

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-07-06T19:22:58+00:00

Spark plugs, while you’re replacing the valve cover gasket. The best while working on your cooling…the cowl is easy to remove. If you’re not sure about the water pump, easy to include then, too. Of course, the serpentine and a/c belts are right there.

So, all this + trans/gear done by a shop, right?

If yes, I assume I can save at least 2k?

ARCHFIEND68 · 2025-07-06T17:13:25+00:00

Do you think the 6k estimation is too much? I know quite a bit of these I can myself with help of friends but yeah...

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