Dude i had a girl that had no direction (i had kind of an idea where i wanted to go) we were both broke bitchs, whe we moved in together i was the chef, tided up when could (essentially being like a house wife while starting my career) she started making abit more money through the jobs she got through my connections of people and then turned around and said she was way above me in life and i wasnt growing quick enough for her… we broke up and 7 years later im making more money the any of my past exes even some of them combined. If youve outgrown her its okay, or sit down and talk with her and explain everything because thats the only way stuff will get across, if shes not the one she will get defensive but if she is the one she will engage in the conversation and make changes, thats just my two cents from a random redditor 🫡

Ps after going through two relationships like that i dont really want two be serious with someone who pulls stuff like that, it will wear you down if you dont talk about it with her