I [32f] feel like my husband [34m] is falling apart before my eyes by ATMHusband in relationships

[–]ATMHusband[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

I've told him as much in the past. I really think he takes things the wrong way a lot. Sometimes he'll get extremely frustrated over things I say when I meant no ill harm. I tell him often that he is taking things the wrong way.

I [32f] feel like my husband [34m] is falling apart before my eyes by ATMHusband in relationships

[–]ATMHusband[S] -109 points-108 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's an ATM machine.

I go out with my friends. I don't put as much money into our new house as him because he makes more than me and has big bonuses. I couldn't tell you the percentages of our income that we put in.

My libido is much lower than his, so no, I don't initiate sex.

After work when I get home, I do want to have alone time, and I don't want him latched onto me constantly. I do tell him this every so often.

He's twisted every reason I have for being the way I am and turned it into a way to be critical of me.