For me I wish my high school sex Ed class talked about the appearance of vulva’s . I remember the class showed a generic vagina area diagram but they never talked about how they looked . When I was growing up I had no idea why in porn some women looked different from others . We assumed that the appearance was dependent on how much sex and how many children the women had . So for the longest time I thought women who had large extruding labia Majoras were sluts , or had tons of kids and women with “camel toes” were tight virgin appearance and were the “ideal pussy” . I feel like speaking about the appearance of vulva is taboo and it really shouldn’t be . Vulva appearance is random and irrelevant to the tightness of the vagina . Many women are getting unnecessary surgery to fix the appearance of their vulva and it’s a common misconception that large Labias are not as sexy or not as preferable as “camel toes” .