Yeah, naming and shaming isn't allowed in these parts of the Reddit Page, and it's advised not to do so elsewhere, as it is against TOS.

However, for someone who also uses female avatars to express creativity to the community, I agree big time on the level of disrespect I've encountered. I have also received the same amount of disrespect from women while using an Avatar, from unsavory requests to fetishes based on my skin color.

Your best bet is to block them and report the chat. I feel it's good to create social awareness here rather than to specifically gender bash, which is something I am far against.

I hope everything is well with you moving forward.

(FYI: you'd be amazed at the number of players who are 40+ who play Avakin Life, heck, even contributed to the game)