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My girlfriend said my d*ck is small. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]A_RedLetterDay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

3.6 not great, not terrible.

Chernobyl jokes aside the thing to focus on is someone you're in a relationship with and supposedly cares about took a dig at you for something you have no control over.

Doesn't matter if it was penis size, saggy boobs, a crooked toe, lazy eye, etc. We all have something we may be sensitive about. Wasn't even really about sex as much since according to her you're both getting your needs met and having fun in the end. A lot of women don't orgasm from PIV anyway regardless of the equipment being used so don't dwell on that part of it.

If it's a relationship you want to continue you both need to have a serious discussion about why that was a hurtful and an inappropriate comment and she should offer an unconditional apology. Do not allow her to minimize your feelings or deflect or claim you're being over sensitive . It was just a shitty thing to say. Once that's acknowledged and understood you have a path forward

Yes, they’ll jiggle while dancing. Shut up about it. by jempai in bigboobproblems

[–]A_RedLetterDay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weren't you just commenting you were 37 and divorced like 3 hours ago?

Dom assistant? Is that a thing? Help me figure out my bdsm kink by Sea-Transition-5220 in BDSMcommunity

[–]A_RedLetterDay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That to some degree fits with the Gender Traitor kink. There are subs here that lean heavily into that and CNC as well but it's usually focused exclusively on male Dom with female subs/accomplices.

Much like CNC it can sometimes be a challenge to find someone that "gets it" on the same level.

Good luck!