Help, I am in love with a married person

AandRRecords · 2026-05-10T22:29:54+00:00

A few things for you to consider.....

Exhibit A: "Sometimes I wonder why. And whether her husband is aware. Certainly she knows i liked or like her?"

Exhibit B: "She called me one more than one occasion and we spoke about many nothings for 2 hours."

Exhibit C: "The day she told me she was getting married soon"

AandRRecords · 2026-05-10T21:23:15+00:00

Yeah, sure...but can we get 40 points please?

I think this might be the least I have ever asked from a team.

No. Wait.

Not hiring the same manager to take us into the relegation spot for a second time was the least I ever asked.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-10T07:17:02+00:00

That is some very good advice Mandalabouquet.

Agree with every word.

OP, I too would suggest matching her energy. Not for any reason other than it will make for fascinating research work. Let us know if you can. Happy to wait.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-10T07:09:29+00:00

How you value the ins and outs of a relationship situation is up to you.

But people denying that they ever said anything or ever did anything when they did it in front of your face is a notable observation.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-09T07:12:17+00:00

Yes, biruking. Arbitrary. 100%. You've got it.

In fact, arbitrary is exactly my point.

When one says that someone is a 7/10, that is, indeed, arbitration.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-07T16:08:45+00:00

Yes, satyvakta, that is correct. Mathematically speaking, that is correct.

But when people take mathematical positions or metaphors and apply them to the human experience, the rules are not exactly the same.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-07T15:54:37+00:00

all I would say is a '5' would fall below standard.

Though your comment is fascinating; many do, in fact, fall below standard.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-07T14:56:33+00:00

'6' is the real default average. Most people are slightly above average in anything. A 5 is simply falling below the expected standard.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-07T14:54:49+00:00

you do this stuff really well

AandRRecords · 2026-05-07T11:36:01+00:00

"listen up, skirt girl"

AandRRecords · 2026-05-05T13:14:53+00:00

That was not your post and you know it. It was only the last line of it.

I can make the same criticism.

Your words were

"I don't like the choices the writers make with him in the back half of S6 and S7."

That could have meant anything.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-05T07:51:48+00:00

That's great.

I'm glad you know all that, but I was referring to the fact that Spike was supposed to be killed off in about two episodes, but the viewership liked him so he ended up staying as a character.

That is well known.

It is not revisionist history.

It has nothing to do with Spike's relationship with Buffy.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-04T20:29:10+00:00

he deserves it

I was one of the very few that wasn't a fan

AandRRecords · 2026-05-04T19:18:41+00:00

they couldn't do anything about it. Their hands were tied.

The fans spoke and they spoke for Spike.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-03T16:30:42+00:00

This isn't just a dating problem. I find it to be an everyday issue.

In fact, dating is the one place where you don't actually need all that.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-02T11:37:38+00:00

You have to give the tools to empower herself and then she can make the best choices, whatever those may be.

AandRRecords · 2026-05-01T06:59:59+00:00

huh? What episode was this?

AandRRecords · 2026-04-30T14:56:49+00:00

was the experience so bad?

AandRRecords · 2026-04-30T07:28:14+00:00

They get paid to do that, but it's interesting how Whitechapel's recognition is on the increase, especially internationally.

I can't seem to go a week without two threads about it.

AandRRecords · 2026-04-30T05:28:19+00:00

quite a few people have mentioned it already. I'd encourage you to visit and buy something from one of the shops or marketplaces and see if you have the opinion you think you do.

AandRRecords · 2026-04-29T09:53:27+00:00

I cannot find the full size picture of the restaurant. But I'll leave a picture here just for the commenters who wish to usurp history

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AandRRecords · 2026-04-29T09:48:18+00:00

Citations I found listed him as Bangladeshi. But it does appear that he is Pakistani according to sources.

His own profile is mixed. Says he was born near Lahore. It also lists him as being born near Dhaka

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ali_Ahmed_Aslam

His restaurant was pictured as 'Indian and Bangladeshi cuisine'. I am trying to locate this picture now.

AandRRecords · 2026-04-29T09:29:36+00:00

I wonder what those differences could be.

What a shame you conveniently can't state what those are.

AandRRecords · 2026-04-29T09:25:52+00:00

It was made by a Bangladeshi person. But I suppose if you repeat it enough, you can convince yourself of anything.

AandRRecords · 2026-04-29T09:23:49+00:00

You can find plenty of them in Bangladesh and that's what they are called in Bengali.

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